She cannot stand up for herself and this shows that she needs feminism more than anyone else. She does not have a say in anything and believes that everything her husband says is right. Nothing shows this more than when she says, "'What if I can't' Dedés voice shook. 'Jamito thinks it's suicide. He told me he'll leave me if I get mixed up in this thing.' There, she said it.... She was hiding behind her husbands fear" (Alvarez 180). This shows that the women could only listen to the men and that they do not get a say. No matter how much a woman may want to do something, if their husband says no, then they cannot do it. Like Dedé, many women do hide behind their husbands fear or their decision. Even though it may be a domineering relationship, most women did not leave their husbands because the divorce rate was low and they would be admonished, by society, if they did. If Dedé followed in her sister's footsteps and stand up for what she believes in, then she may have a happier marriage and have a lot more freedom. This is how feminism could have affected her life if she went down that
She cannot stand up for herself and this shows that she needs feminism more than anyone else. She does not have a say in anything and believes that everything her husband says is right. Nothing shows this more than when she says, "'What if I can't' Dedés voice shook. 'Jamito thinks it's suicide. He told me he'll leave me if I get mixed up in this thing.' There, she said it.... She was hiding behind her husbands fear" (Alvarez 180). This shows that the women could only listen to the men and that they do not get a say. No matter how much a woman may want to do something, if their husband says no, then they cannot do it. Like Dedé, many women do hide behind their husbands fear or their decision. Even though it may be a domineering relationship, most women did not leave their husbands because the divorce rate was low and they would be admonished, by society, if they did. If Dedé followed in her sister's footsteps and stand up for what she believes in, then she may have a happier marriage and have a lot more freedom. This is how feminism could have affected her life if she went down that