It is unfortunate, and it doesn’t seem right. We each have a different walk we have taken in life, and being subjected to labels makes it hard to be involved in certain events, and organizations, maybe even to be hired for a job. If you really wanted a job and the person that does the hiring had a bad experience with a military spouse once, it may hinder his/her desire to hire you.
After reading the text and studying the different theories such as structural strains theory, control theory, labeling theory, and so forth, I agreed with the text in regard to how society can create deviance by encouraging high aspirations and denying avenues of success (Schaefer, 2011). If you become conformed to your label and you start acting delinquent due to your new broken bond with society and being ostracized then that proves that rule can be broken, and deviance can be created naturally, thus proving the control theory.