Military Children Research Paper

"Their military parent signed on the dotted line; their children did not. Yet, they must deal with deployments, frequent moves and school transitions, and they do so with courage and grace" (Sanchez). Military children face situations that many children their age never have to face, such as their parents leaving in deployments, the constant three-year moves, separations from loved ones, and stress of the military. When people think of these military children, the first thing they think about is how these children are different and face their parents' constant absence. Unless they are part of the military, however, most people have little understanding of the military life and how this life affects the family, specifically the children. Some people would say that the military has no effect on the children, others say that the children are often negatively impacted by this life, but very few people would argue that …show more content…
Growing up in the military, allows me to personally witness this positive growth in character through myself and through my fellow military brats; moreover, it allows me to witness the false view on us military brats and how those negative views personally affect the way military children view themselves. Many people look at military families with sympathy and look down on the children who experience the challenges that the life-style brings; however, very few people look at these kids with admiration and see their strength. Through the constant moving, deployments, and supportive community, military children demonstrate to other kids around them that they are not just military brats who are "broken," but that they have positive characteristics that come from being in the military. Viewing these positive characteristics in the military children allows them to view themselves in a more positive