Middle Child Syndrome Research Paper

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I have survived and risen above a problem that has no end or cure. It is called the Middle Child Syndrome. I have one sister who is two years older than me, and a younger sister who is 3 years younger than me. But don’t worry; I face this problem with much strength and bravery, knowing that I will never succumb to this worldly problem. Many psychologists describe Middle Child Syndrome as someone who looks for direction from their older sibling, feels they do not get enough attention, and does not work well under pressure, but on the bright side is very creative. I do see how some of the qualities pertain to me, especially the creative trait. I approach this life long challenge with optimism and have turned this Middle Child Syndrome frown upside down. Yes, I do look to my older sister for directions and …show more content…
She got more presents, more parent time, more attention; she had it out for me since the beginning. But it has been 13 years since that day, and her cute, candy coating is turning a little sour. My parents are seeing that she is a pre-teen and there is nothing cute about that. They are realizing she must actually do stuff now. I should actually be thanking my little sister now because she has shown my parents how responsible I am. I look noticeably responsible, organized, and tall compared to her. (I always am responsible and organized, but it is highlighted to a greater extent when I am with my little sister). As the years go on, the first child sparkle is starting to rust and the baby is no longer a baby. It is now my time to shine and my parents are seeing the light. I have proven myself as an individual through my creativity and have proven that I can follow orders and be a leader at the same time. In reality I should be thanking my sisters for being born first and last. Without them I would not have developed some of the qualities that make me, me, and I would not have been able to write this

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