Why are men so sensitive when it comes to their masculinity? Most men try to act tough because this is how our society think about men, they have to be strong and unemotional. We have learned that men don’t cry, regardless of the situation if you’re a man, you have to hold it. In the Glass Castle, Jeannette Walls shows masculinity in the book through her father, Rex Walls. Masculinity is a phenomenon that has been around for so long, it became the normal thing for men.…
Just as in Miss Representation, Tough Guise 2 evaluates the effect of a toxic gender hierarchy portrayed in American media. However, this documentary focuses more on the male experience and how constructs and scripts of masculinity can affect them throughout their lives. While girls contend with images of Barbie Malibu as the standard of feminine appearance, boys are shown a GI Joe with biceps that measure even larger than Dwayne Johnson’s as the ideal standard of physical masculinity. Additionally, the numerous manners in which violence is encouraged in men sprouts from everyday media like TV shows, ads, and video games. It promises men uncompromising control, dominance, and power over others in life, defining these traits (among others)…
"Tough Guise 2" featuring Jackson Katz starts by pulling on viewers heartstrings with news reports on recent shootings. These were such significant and traumatizing events from not too long ago. These shootings are still an incredibly big deal, even today. Jackson Katz makes a rather valid point when he says that maybe we need to stop focusing on the wrong details. He then continues to explain how men may be the sole problem behind these aggressive actions.…
They believe that the capacity for empathy and compassion has to be suppressed, early on, in the name of achieving masculinity (Kimmel, 2008).” This pales in comparison with “Guy Code”; the name Kimmel has given to the ideology of manhood. He believes that, “Guys do what they do in part because they can get away with it, that other guys won’t say anything, and that the…
Since they are always told to follow the guidelines, males cannot always show their true feelings. Showing any type of emotion or doing any action that is not masculine will result them in being judged by other males like their fathers, uncles, or male friends. With the guy code always being reinforced on young men, it shapes them to be masculine but hide their feelings. The writings “Bros Before Hos: The Guy Code” by Michael Kimmel and “Becoming Members of Society: Learning The Social Meaning of Gender” by Aaron H. Devor show how men grow up following the…
Men are expected to present themselves as being dominate and emotionless. Anything that could possibly question their manliness could be as simple as clothing, hair style, athleticism, and emotional state would be detrimental to their persona. Proving oneself is a “never ending test” (Kimmel 468) that one will never pass at. Not all men should be hard headed and emotionless, if they achieved this, they would not be human. Humanity is fluid there is no right or wrong way to live even if society thinks there is.…
Although male privilege gives many benefits such as power to men, it is no doubt that this privilege taught and encouraged to men ruin their perception of themselves and women. It is clear that male privilege has a huge effect on women, but many individuals do not even come to think that it has become an issue for men as well. In Ellison’s article in Holding up Our Half of the Sky: Male Gender Privilege as Problem and Resource for Liberation Ethics, he states that: “gender privilege affects men’s moral knowledge and agency” (Ellison 95). In this context, agency defines as the ability for an individual to act and make decisions for themselves. Since men are taught to be this strong, powerful, and aggressive character, it teaches them that they…
While there may still be stigma around men expressing soft emotions, it is becoming more acceptable. Advertising may still promote hegemonic masculinity but has become inclusive of other forms of masculinity, if only not to alienate potential consumers. Men’s magazine’s which focus predominantly on titillating images of women and embody only one form of masculinity, have become less popular, while those that focus on advice and information which cater to alternative masculinities remain…
The article, “Men, Masculinities, and Feminism” explains that men can be privileged in society but still lose privilege because of certain characteristics that oppress them. The authors, Christopher J. Greig and Barbara A. Pollard (2017) elaborate this explaining that even though men have power based on their gender, their privilege is challenged and ranked within their sex. This can be seen by a social hierarchy that oppresses those who aren’t considered to be as masculine as other Men. Men are pressured by other men to perform actions that are masculine, such as displaying dominance by being aggressive, to secure a higher status. Throughout their life, they are constantly fighting to prove their masculine standing in society so that they…
There are three primary findings that support the main focus of this topic. It directly focuses on men and the violence they show to women, other men, and also to themselves. This triad coincides directly with each other supported by findings that society creates a man who must dominate and control himself and his surroundings. Men are instilled with this society given power in early years and are continuously given reassurance that violence is what makes a man. This privilege allows men to objectify women, reenforce violence, and challenge the idea of equality.…
Looking at our society it is known that we live in an offspring of a patriarchy society, where men have the power in controlling different aspects in society due to the history of masculinity traditionally and hegemonic viewing them as leaders and aggressive. However with this becomes a powerful role in society considering that according to Umberson, Anderson,…
Masculinity’s Crossroads The article “Guys vs. Men,” Dave Barry uses satire to explain the problems with masculinity and a new approach to how males should be classified and judged. The article “The Crisis of American Masculinity” by Eric Garland discusses his view of how the traditional image of manhood is dying in today’s society. Each of them give their opinions on what manhood is; the manner that society should treat males with, the importance of masculinity in males, and their opinion of the necessity of these masculine characteristics.…
An aspect of patriarchy that still exists in today’s culture would have to be on female sexuality. For example, the male and female double standard and how that affects the amount of sexual partners a female has. Also, how badly women get looked upon when they cheat on their significant other. Female sexuality is an aspect of patriarchy that still exists because there is a double standard in our society when it comes to having sexual orientation. For instance, Zhana Vrangalova PhD who has a PhD in Developmental Psychology and is currently a professor at the NYU Psychology department, stated within her article on sexual double standard that women are judged more harshly than men for engaging in the same behaviors, especially when those behaviors…
Patriarchy, like other social constructs, is an internal systematic oppression that has slowly evolved over the course of humanity and somehow managed to stick around. How the patriarchy came to be and why it is still in place are questions with indeterminate answers. However, many feminist works go on to challenge the patriarchy’s actuality by identifying certain characteristics of our society that may have contributed to the growth and dominance of the male gender. Although, so as to correct any personal convictions, it is important to recognize that a patriarchal culture can only exist given that the oppressed is accommodating.…
Often times, whether in TV or movies, men are portrayed to be standoffish, selfish, incapable of conveying or even understanding their emotions, and are yet expected to be the…