However, there are also hazards to meeting and dating women at work. If the company you work for does not allow inter-office romances then you both could lose your jobs because of it. On the other hand, if you tend to date more women at work then everyone in that office will see you as just some guy that likes to date women he works with. This could make you look like a pig and even desperate to your fellow female colleagues. There are some unexpected places you can meet women as well. These ones are not talked about as much as bars, clubs and work, because most men do not go to these places to meet women. This is because it may not be something that a lot of men do, and something that a lot of men do not like to do. Visit your local gym and see what they have for classes. Choose one that you would like or are interested in and take the class. More women than men tend to take on gym classes, so you might meet a woman in your class. Plus, you will already have a common interest because you are in the same class together! This is why it is very important to not take a gym class simply to meet a woman. Make sure you are actually interested in the class as well, or women will see right through you. Co-ed aerobics classes are also great for meeting …show more content…
Right arena. But then again, I don't really date (too) casually, nor do I date with the sole purpose of finding Mr. R. I just go out and meet people, as dates or as friends, because I like people. I would generally prefer older men because they are more mature, confident, successful, etc. than younger men (or one would hope), and that view will not change much till the rest of my days. However, I'm at that stage where most men that I meet are younger than me (or do I just hang out with the wrong crowd?), and that's fine as well. There are always some advantages to being younger, being in better shape, better looking (maybe), and having more of that 'joi de viv' still with them, as they try to prove themselves in their career or life in general. They are more daring and bold as they go about living life to the fullest, before "settling down." I can go for both (with a slight preference for older), as age is pretty much just 'a number.' But when going for serious romantic relationships, I have cut-off ages on how far apart I can go with the age difference (up or down). The main thing is really finding someone I am compatible with, who share the same (or at least similar) values, who will take me as I am, who will not lead me to compromise my integrity & self-worth, and who I can grow old with laughing and making memories through thick & thin. There should be someone out there, right?