Maturity And Immature In Shakespeare's 'Romeo And Juliet'

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“Is Rosaline, that thou didst love so dear, So soon forsaken? Young men’s love then lies not truly in their hearts, but in their eyes.” - Friar Laurence, Act 2 Scene 3.
Everybody is faced with difficult decisions in their life, and everybody will respond differently to these challenges. Different emotions and characteristics can lead to different choices, but sometimes they are better to tune out, because they can lead to poor decision making. For example, Romeo is quick to forget about Rosaline, only to take up another love, Juliet, in a rash, impulsive decision. In William Shakespeare’s “Romeo and Juliet”, it is illustrated that young, inexperienced individuals will make poor choices because of impulse, influence of others, and haste, which
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Romeo and Juliet are both immature, as shown by their interpretation of their love. They believe that their first love is who they are meant to be with, and the fall in love far too quickly, in Act 1 Scene 4. This scene shows immaturity because both of them believe they are deeply in love, when they only had one moment together. Romeo is especially immature, in that he forgets Rosaline so quickly, and moves on without realising his mistake of falling in love to quickly. This immaturity leads to the proclaiming of their love for one another on the balcony, and eventually their hasty marriage, in Act 2 Scene 2 and Act 2 Scene 6. In these scenes, they are both shown to be hasty, having only met for a moment they express their love for one another, and exchange vows of love. They then rush into a marriage the very next day. Finally, Romeo and Juliet are also shown to both be impulsive in Act 5 Scene 3, when they act on their sadness and kill themselves. This shows their impulsiveness, because they do not think of alternatives once they have made their decision. They are also hasty, in that they are quick to act on their emotions, grief and sadness, and do not think of the pain it may cause for others. Romeo and Juliet are immature and impulsive, which leads to hasty decisions, and eventually their deaths.

In “Romeo and Juliet”, the main characters are young and immature. Their immaturity and impulsiveness leads to their hasty decisions, and ultimately their deaths. There are several examples of this, such as their marriage, they are hasty to react on their feelings. Romeo and Juliet's fate is not because it is “just not meant to be”, but rather that their personalities when put together are bad, and in any situation they would make poor

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