The crippling crutch that internet culture can bring about is a lifestyle for many people. In Japan, there are enough men who have become so relationally incapacitated, refusing to leave their rooms, that they have a name, “The Hikikomori.” In a BBC article written about them, authors William Kremer and Claudia Hammond tell the story of a boy who began to stay in his room on his computer as a daily ritual, and eventually the pressures of the outside world built up so much that he refused to leave, relying on the internet as his companion. Yes, stress can cause people to withdrawal regardless of the internet’s presence, but would they be able to prolong their withdraw for as long a time without it? I think not. Clearly, internet culture has grown more quickly than churches, psychologists, counselors, police, and the larger medical community have kept up with. We would be better off emotionally, relationally, and spiritually if the internet did not exist, but since that is impossible, adults, especially those present in church communities and schools, need to wake up to the relational tranquilizer being fed to the young people around them, grab them, look them in the eyes, and ask them what is going on in their
The crippling crutch that internet culture can bring about is a lifestyle for many people. In Japan, there are enough men who have become so relationally incapacitated, refusing to leave their rooms, that they have a name, “The Hikikomori.” In a BBC article written about them, authors William Kremer and Claudia Hammond tell the story of a boy who began to stay in his room on his computer as a daily ritual, and eventually the pressures of the outside world built up so much that he refused to leave, relying on the internet as his companion. Yes, stress can cause people to withdrawal regardless of the internet’s presence, but would they be able to prolong their withdraw for as long a time without it? I think not. Clearly, internet culture has grown more quickly than churches, psychologists, counselors, police, and the larger medical community have kept up with. We would be better off emotionally, relationally, and spiritually if the internet did not exist, but since that is impossible, adults, especially those present in church communities and schools, need to wake up to the relational tranquilizer being fed to the young people around them, grab them, look them in the eyes, and ask them what is going on in their