Couples take the easy way out by coming to a decision that divorce is the right solution to all their tribulations instead of solving those ridiculous problems through devoting their life to love, saving their marriage. Marriage is supposed to be a one-flesh relationship made by God, human beings are not allowed to end this precious relationship for asinine reasons. Another way to call marriage is a “covenant”, according to the Old Testament (Brewer 1). The belief of this cherished covenant was embraced through benedictions, curses, mutual concern between the married couple, loyalty, and especially, love (Brewer 2). Love is the essential major key point for a healthy relationship. However, there is an enormous growth of divorces in the current
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In her article, she elaborates on how the necessities in a Christian Marriage. The first requisite factor for a healthy marriage is permanence. The partners should not leave each other no matter what unless death plays a role in-between them. Breaking a relation with a reason other than death, can be considered a sin. Especially, when the married partner commits adultery. “Corinthians 7:39 and Romans 7:1-2 teach that remarriage is legitimate only after the death of a spouse” (Piper). Nowadays, couples live together until they love each other, which is not for long (Curran, Rubio 361). Celebrities are a great influence on people. A great paradigm of this fashionable marriages disobeying God, are the couple married for only fifty five hours, Britney Spears and Jason Alexander (Clementa). Dennis Rodman and Carmen Electra are another popular couple who could not last for more than nine days after tying their valuable knot (Clementa).There should be faithfulness throughout their lives in order to maintain the permanence in their relationship (Curran, Rubio 361). Another important element of the necessities in a healthy marriage is fidelity. The couple must be flexible with each other instead of following the concept of absolute rule of one. Faith and trust is a major part in fidelity. Sexual relationships with others than the spouse is considered unfaithful. This might raise tension and a loss of trust between …show more content…
As indicated by the students of University of Michigan, Lois Verbrugge and James House, a marriage with broken relationships can result in an augmented chance of getting sick and a shorter life span by thirty-five percent (Gottman, Silver 4). On the other hand, the happily married couple will last longer than the others. The indissoluble bond between the married couple creates the affection to take care of each other. The couples will go through a lower rate of maladies such as depression, violence, psychosis, and abuse (Gottman, Silver 5). They take care by keeping their spouses by taking “taking regular checkups, take medicine, eat nutritiously, and so on” (Gottman, Silver 5). There are plenty of ways to avoid the ruckus in marriages, the couples must decide which way they want to choose. Rather than hating each other, couples should follow the major key points by learning to build belief and faith on their life partner, eliminating sexist attitudes, have mutual acceptance, giving equal participation in decisions, helping each other out, acceptance of the reality and necessities, avoiding the practice of cohabitation, and avoiding dangerous arguments. Divorce is definitely not the right solution to end the problems between the married couples. This quote expounds the reason to why couples are not allowed to separate from each other, “Jesus rejected the Pharisees’
In her article, she elaborates on how the necessities in a Christian Marriage. The first requisite factor for a healthy marriage is permanence. The partners should not leave each other no matter what unless death plays a role in-between them. Breaking a relation with a reason other than death, can be considered a sin. Especially, when the married partner commits adultery. “Corinthians 7:39 and Romans 7:1-2 teach that remarriage is legitimate only after the death of a spouse” (Piper). Nowadays, couples live together until they love each other, which is not for long (Curran, Rubio 361). Celebrities are a great influence on people. A great paradigm of this fashionable marriages disobeying God, are the couple married for only fifty five hours, Britney Spears and Jason Alexander (Clementa). Dennis Rodman and Carmen Electra are another popular couple who could not last for more than nine days after tying their valuable knot (Clementa).There should be faithfulness throughout their lives in order to maintain the permanence in their relationship (Curran, Rubio 361). Another important element of the necessities in a healthy marriage is fidelity. The couple must be flexible with each other instead of following the concept of absolute rule of one. Faith and trust is a major part in fidelity. Sexual relationships with others than the spouse is considered unfaithful. This might raise tension and a loss of trust between …show more content…
As indicated by the students of University of Michigan, Lois Verbrugge and James House, a marriage with broken relationships can result in an augmented chance of getting sick and a shorter life span by thirty-five percent (Gottman, Silver 4). On the other hand, the happily married couple will last longer than the others. The indissoluble bond between the married couple creates the affection to take care of each other. The couples will go through a lower rate of maladies such as depression, violence, psychosis, and abuse (Gottman, Silver 5). They take care by keeping their spouses by taking “taking regular checkups, take medicine, eat nutritiously, and so on” (Gottman, Silver 5). There are plenty of ways to avoid the ruckus in marriages, the couples must decide which way they want to choose. Rather than hating each other, couples should follow the major key points by learning to build belief and faith on their life partner, eliminating sexist attitudes, have mutual acceptance, giving equal participation in decisions, helping each other out, acceptance of the reality and necessities, avoiding the practice of cohabitation, and avoiding dangerous arguments. Divorce is definitely not the right solution to end the problems between the married couples. This quote expounds the reason to why couples are not allowed to separate from each other, “Jesus rejected the Pharisees’