Marriage Is A Private Affair By Nnaemeka

Improved Essays
Many Young lovers are conflicted with the decision having an arranged marriage or love marriage. There is no right or wrong when it comes to the different types of marriages, so it is up to the lover to decide. In the story, Marriage is a Private Affair, Nnaemeka was torn whether to choose to follow his heart or his family.
To this day, young adults struggle with the decision of having a traditional arranged marriage, or a nontraditional love marriage. There are many advantages in having an arranged marriage. Many young adults explained that they don’t have to worry about finding a husband/ spouse, for their parents did that for them. Even though they might not have loved the person at the time, they did develop feelings toward each other over

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    Huerto Mr. Wisniewski English 101-168 October 5, 2017 The State of our Unions David Papenoe and Barbara Dafoe Whitehead, whom are two different marriage and family expert come together to analyze the data and statistics of where marriages in 21st century America stand. Yearly, Papenoe and Whitehead collects datas by surveys through the National Marriage project at Rutgers University which they also teach at. Over the years of collecting marriage and family datas they summarize it through their article, "The State of our Union" (Papenoe and Whitehead 390).…

    • 1027 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    In “Ready For Marriage Apocalypse?” Carol Costello explaines that culturals attitudes toward traditional marriage are drifting away as many Americans millennial questions whether marriage is for them. As many young Americans were raised in environments of credit debt, student loans and marriage separation. In that fact the millennial generation prioritizes in their careers and travel. Many of them strongly belief staying single becomes more socially acceptable.…

    • 708 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Centuries ago, the marriage of two people was considered a legal agreement rather than an act of love. To marry for love was considered a dishonor toward the family, displaying affection in the public was an unwritten law that would result in shame. However, as centuries passed, times changed. It is now acceptable to marry for love, but the question is, will the couple’s love be able to withstand the hardships of life? The change within marriage can be seen in the article “The Radical Idea of Marrying for Love” by Stephanie Coontz, where she talks about the history of marriage and how different cultures interpret marriage, and the article “Will Your Marriage Last?” by Aviva Patz, is about his opinion on marrying for love, and how it is absurd…

    • 1134 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Marriage, what everyone used to assume is the the turning point of one’s life, has now become the not so common fantasies girls have. People’s perspectives on marriage and traditional family value have changed a lot. Dorian Solot, the author of “On Not Saying ‘I Do’”, explains her concerns and thoughts on the concept of not getting married for her whole life in her article. She argues that marriage is just what the society uses to judge a person’s status, not what this word used to stand for, love, for instance. Conversely, the author of “Five Non-religious Arguments for Marriage”, Dennis Prager contradicts Solot’s idea by providing five different reasons and benefits of getting married.…

    • 931 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Marriage is one of the most common known traditions that has occurred for over centuries. The views on marriage remain dissimilar among different cultures and have changed over the periods of time. To demonstrate, in the narratives ¨The Story of an Hour¨ and ¨A Jury of Her Peers¨ these short stories give us insight on some perspectives of marriage life back in the day. Both of these deal with women who feel trapped by the ways of marriage, such as by their companion. People marry for different reasons, but the question that society should be asking; is it still an important institution?…

    • 794 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Chapter 8 Homework Questions: Revolution and Republican Culture Explain the economic developments in banking and credit (p.250-251) There was a debate made whether banks should be individual or bank owned Economic crisis with lots of banking issues were caused by sketchy bank policies Realized that there’s not a lot of worth for what people owe them or their credits What changes were made in the rural economy and how did that change the landscape? (p.251-255 Through rural manufacturing, technology was able to improve the way merchants and farmers sell…

    • 788 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Based off of this I believe that the performance of a husband and wife for loved marriages do differ from those arranged marriages. Loved marriages work (sometimes) because both individuals are in love and they have come together to build and grow in a relationship together. Arranged marriages are based off of religons and both individuals may or may not know who they are marrying until the wedding day. I believe that both type of marriages could work and both marriages do have a chance of not continuing. I would say that arranged marriages are arranged and that is for their own religion, even though they may not love the person and they may be suffering i feel they would have to stay in the marriage.…

    • 456 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Citizens are assigned spouses by which jobs people have and what kind of personalities people have. Arranged marriages were the only thing that people knew so they liked and accepted it. If not for stirring pills people might have wanted to be alone or might of wanted to be with someone that was the same gender. Having someone be assigned to be with someone else prevents people being alone and sadness of not having anyone. In our society how we interact with people is with feelings both good and bad.…

    • 899 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    I believe the “fairy tale” of love that is discussed in the article is harmful to woman for the two fallowing reasons. Fairy tales teaches, false ideas about love, that later on could lead to a fall of depression for a human being. However, there are also some negative aspects of fairy tales. According to the article “The Marriage Plot” by Roxane Gay says “Instead of bleeding from the foot to fit a golden slipper, they bleed their dignity, one episode at a time” (2).…

    • 219 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The era of the 1950s, was an iconic era in american history. The american dream of freedom, self empowerment, and success was growing. After WW2, the soldiers returned and the generation of baby boomers began. The baby Boomer generation was born between mid 1950 's to mid 1960s, this was also the time where the Happy Homemakers were born. Women who stayed home and looked after the children while her husband provided.…

    • 1170 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    In the article “How to Save Marriage in America” the author Richard Reeves discusses marriage in America and how marriage has changed over the years. Reeves tells is that American marriage is not dying, children raised by married parents do better on a range of educational, social and economic outcomes, lack of parenting in poor populations and that there is a lack of marriageable men. I agree with Reeves first two points. I disagree with his idea that there is a lack of marriageable men. I believe that marriage has simply changed over the years and conformed to the 21st century and the ideas of our society today.…

    • 865 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Decent Essays

    Many belive the notion that arranged marriages are wrong. It is expressed by many in society, that the idea of arranged marriages is, in fact, a denial of rights and freedom to the concerned parties. On…

    • 175 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Decent Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Not only arranged marriages, but if the parents of the husband felt the wife were doing wrong or not living up to their standards then “parents could force a son to divorce his wife.” Coontz also described how “couples were not to put their feelings for each other above more important commitments, such as their ties to parents, siblings, cousins, neighbors, or God.” As for the role of the husband and wife in the marriage, Coontz explains how those who married in some cultures were not to be married for love. The love part of the relationship would grow within time. It was also a negative thing for a man and woman to have “excessive love.”…

    • 1127 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Made in America: Immigrant students in our public schools by Laurie Olsen Most American teen’s girls are worried about what they are going to wear to the next dance or the next house party, but unlike immigrant teen girls who are worried about leaving school early and entering into an arranged marriage. In the Hindu and Muslim culture, children are expected to marry a spouse that her family has chosen. An arrange marriage allows the parents to choose a husband that is of their own nationality. When marrying someone of your nationality, family values and traditions are maintained.…

    • 839 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    This literature review will focus on the differences and similarities between free choice marriages in the U.S. and arranged marriages in India. Concepts that will be looked at with greater detail are: how love emerges and marital happiness in India, wellness and satisfaction in both India and the U.S., mate selection among younger generations, and how social institutions affect the decision of arranged marriage among the youth. These two cultures both have very different beliefs and ideas on how marriage works properly. The research being done has the intent to help us become more accepting towards each other’s reasoning on marriage and to provide a better understanding on why each culture choses to accept the marriage traditions in which they participate in. The studies also provides a greater knowledge and benefit…

    • 1700 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Improved Essays