If I remember correctly, the hardest stage from Mark Knapp’s theory was the initiating stage. With me being a shy person, the thought of approaching a girl that I like was harder than anything I have ever done. The best way for me to get close to that girl was to make remarks about an innocuous subject, such as the weather or making a friendly expression and hoping that she will see it. This may seem superficial and meaningless, but it is a way of signaling that I’m interested in building a relationship with her.
The next stage is without a doubt the experimenting stage. The faster that I can find a common ground and interest, the easier it will be to get to know her. Developing small talk is one of my specialty. Using Facebook or other
The next stage is without a doubt the experimenting stage. The faster that I can find a common ground and interest, the easier it will be to get to know her. Developing small talk is one of my specialty. Using Facebook or other