Male Role Models In Amir's Life

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Throughout one’s life, people come and go. Whether or not we realize it at the time, they all leave a mark on your life. There were several male role models in Amir’s life that significantly affected his personality, including Baba who raises him, Hassan who provides a strong friendship and Rahim Khan who acts as a father figure and provides him the confidence he desperately lacks.
For most people, a father is supposedly there to encourage, provide and guide a child. For Amir, a fatherly figure is something he lacks tremendously as Baba and Amir had a very tense relationship. All Amir ever wants is his father’s approval but nothing he ever does wins his fathers attention. This neglect and lack of fatherly interest created the problem throughout

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