Love & Relationships Essay

2597 Words Mar 17th, 2010 11 Pages
Abstract:

In every relationship, there are two halves. One you can control, yours and the other is controlled by the other half in the relationship. This paper will emphasis on what it takes to have a true relationship with someone, rather if it is a friend or lover all the components need to be in place just like the solar system with the planets aligned. If your planets are not aligned in a relationship, it is doomed to fail. This paper will discuss the methods that are valuable to have a long lasting relationship if properly put into place. Egocentricity, have power over and fear will break almost any relationship. Kindness, independence and love will create the most beautiful relationship: an enduring romance.
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You have to fight for equal justice in a marriage and be a positive role model for children and other young couples that look up to you.
6 Secrets to a Lasting Relationship
There are six steps that create a long lasting relationship. The structure of an intimate relationship rest on six pillars, which are the core of each of the 6 Secrets. Their initials form the acronym CREATES. Chemistry, Respect, Enjoyment, Acceptance, Trust and Empathy. (Goulston & Goldberg, 2001)
CREATE
We all want to feel a powerful chemistry for our mates-and to know what they feel for us. We all want to be respected by our partners-and to have respect for them. We all want to enjoy being with our beloved-and to be enjoyed. We all want to fully accept our mates-and to be fully accepted by them. We all want to trust our partners-and be trusted by them. We all want to empathize with our lovers-to understand what they are thinking and feeling-and to have them know what it is like to be us. (Goulston & Goldberg, 2001)
Chemistry
Chemistry is defined as the study of matter and the changes it under goes. (Dictionary.com, 2009). One wants to think of chemistry in a relationship as a continuous attraction towards one another. You are eager to see that person as soon as they walk in the door; it’s like a magnet with a strong bond on the end. Chemistry is not just an overpowering attraction to another person. It is also the

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