Love is a mixture of emotions and attitudes towards a person that can affect or alter feelings of happiness or attachment to a person or group of people. Loving someone is not a choice to be made, it is a feeling that is controlled by experiences and other feelings surrounding a relationship. Whether a relationship be between a male and female, friendship, or parent child relationship, all of these are loving relationships, but all of them express a different type of love for each other, in every one of these, loving the other person involved is a feeling developed from the memories shared and the happiness that being with that person brings you. However, love as it appears in human to human contact can change itself in regards to feelings,
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Often times, especially as you grow up with a person you are involved with and mature along side them, you realize that the person you are now with, is not the same person that you let your guard down for, just a few short months ago. When dating someone for a long time, you either grow up together or grow apart as you age and mature, for most young couples it is the latter of the two choices. I myself have found myself in that position, I had grown apart from the person I thought I would be spending the rest of my life with. The feelings that come along with that discovery that two people no longer feel the same way about each other is enough are enough to drive even the most loving partners apart, the hateful words and the low blows and the arrangements are enough to make a person question why they fell for you in the first place. Although, after experiencing all this for myself, I can say, at least in my experience and my turmoil with learning that I could no longer honestly say I had the same feelings as my then boyfriend, I still love him, and I love the lessons our relationship taught me.
With the right person(s) involved any relationship, whether personal, scholarly or work place, there will be struggles that affect your feelings towards that person. In romantic relationships, you don’t have a choice to love someone or to not love someone. Love is a feeling that develops and gets stronger over time, when in certain scenarios, your feelings may change causing the type of love you have that particular person to change. However, in most cases it is extremely hard to get over a love you once had for someone or outgrow that
Often times, especially as you grow up with a person you are involved with and mature along side them, you realize that the person you are now with, is not the same person that you let your guard down for, just a few short months ago. When dating someone for a long time, you either grow up together or grow apart as you age and mature, for most young couples it is the latter of the two choices. I myself have found myself in that position, I had grown apart from the person I thought I would be spending the rest of my life with. The feelings that come along with that discovery that two people no longer feel the same way about each other is enough are enough to drive even the most loving partners apart, the hateful words and the low blows and the arrangements are enough to make a person question why they fell for you in the first place. Although, after experiencing all this for myself, I can say, at least in my experience and my turmoil with learning that I could no longer honestly say I had the same feelings as my then boyfriend, I still love him, and I love the lessons our relationship taught me.
With the right person(s) involved any relationship, whether personal, scholarly or work place, there will be struggles that affect your feelings towards that person. In romantic relationships, you don’t have a choice to love someone or to not love someone. Love is a feeling that develops and gets stronger over time, when in certain scenarios, your feelings may change causing the type of love you have that particular person to change. However, in most cases it is extremely hard to get over a love you once had for someone or outgrow that