He claims that love is truly wanting good for them; there is not a necessity to like someone when you love them. Many find that if they forgive someone they have to like them and are unable to punish them. In Lewis’s depiction, when you love someone and they wrong you, you do not have to like them and you can punish them out of love. He makes the distinction, that many blur, between love and like. Lewis love is one that does not require fondness. Charity is often, in secular and other religious circles, believed to be just “giving to the poor.” To Lewis, charity is “love, in the Christian sense.” To be charitable towards others, not just the poor, is to love them as your neighbor and love them as God loves
He claims that love is truly wanting good for them; there is not a necessity to like someone when you love them. Many find that if they forgive someone they have to like them and are unable to punish them. In Lewis’s depiction, when you love someone and they wrong you, you do not have to like them and you can punish them out of love. He makes the distinction, that many blur, between love and like. Lewis love is one that does not require fondness. Charity is often, in secular and other religious circles, believed to be just “giving to the poor.” To Lewis, charity is “love, in the Christian sense.” To be charitable towards others, not just the poor, is to love them as your neighbor and love them as God loves