Losing My Identity Research Paper

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Don't let my apparent happiness confuse you.
I'm slowly spiraling into a pit of confusion as I'm losing my identity.
Before now I was no one.
I was a shadow in the halls
I was a ghost in classroom
Now people are noticing me.
I'm talking to the new people
The popular people
The people people
The people I once wished I could be I'm now becoming.
But they don't want all of me
They want the bits and pieces that benefit them
But in only becoming what they want I'm losing what I am
Who I am.

Whether we like to admit it or not we all have to different identities. We have the identity we show to other people. They identity that is made of the things that people want to see that they can use to make themselves feel better and give themselves power.

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