Do you feel like you are floating through life letting it take you where it wants to take you? Or, do you feel like you are making decisions in life that have a big influence over where you go? One of these life paths is living by design and the other is living by default. Which path are you on?
Are You Living By Default?
This path is where you put your life in other people's hands. You don't have an idea where you are going, so you don't take action on anything that you really want to achieve. Instead, your life is determined by other people who decide how you will feel and behave today, tomorrow, and every day.
This may seem like I'm exaggerating, but I'm really not. When you live by default, you follow the crowd and do what others are doing. You let things happen to you and affect your life in whatever way they want …show more content…
- They feel chaotic, pulled in different directions, out of control of their own life, and unhappy.
- They do what is expected of them because they want to live up to a standard set by other people.
- They don't take the time to do the stuff that really makes them happy in life because they are too busy trying to do stuff for others.
- They have a problem saying no to people - even when they really want to say it.
- They have no plans for the future, no direction, no goals.
- They have many regrets and disappointments in life.
- They have a negative and pessimistic attitude towards life.
Are You Living By Design?
This path is where you put your life in your hands as much as possible. You know where you want to go, how you want to get there, and what you need to do to make it happen. Other people don't influence your decisions in life, and they don't influence how your life is going to go.
In other words, they are taking charge of their life. They know who they are and who they want to be, and they do stuff to get them
Are You Living By Default?
This path is where you put your life in other people's hands. You don't have an idea where you are going, so you don't take action on anything that you really want to achieve. Instead, your life is determined by other people who decide how you will feel and behave today, tomorrow, and every day.
This may seem like I'm exaggerating, but I'm really not. When you live by default, you follow the crowd and do what others are doing. You let things happen to you and affect your life in whatever way they want …show more content…
- They feel chaotic, pulled in different directions, out of control of their own life, and unhappy.
- They do what is expected of them because they want to live up to a standard set by other people.
- They don't take the time to do the stuff that really makes them happy in life because they are too busy trying to do stuff for others.
- They have a problem saying no to people - even when they really want to say it.
- They have no plans for the future, no direction, no goals.
- They have many regrets and disappointments in life.
- They have a negative and pessimistic attitude towards life.
Are You Living By Design?
This path is where you put your life in your hands as much as possible. You know where you want to go, how you want to get there, and what you need to do to make it happen. Other people don't influence your decisions in life, and they don't influence how your life is going to go.
In other words, they are taking charge of their life. They know who they are and who they want to be, and they do stuff to get them