The idea that in many urban setting during Donne’s time, the male figure would be the one who went out to work in an outside setting. The narrative using the last sentence to use the state that a person who works more than they love their wife as equal to a person with a mistress and since most mistressed were women, the last lines helped me cycle back to my primary hypothesis that the narrator was a female. This doesn’t change much of the central themes in the poem that Donne created, but it could add onto the our analyzation of the poem and its implications of gender norms and understanding why a female would desire to keep her companion in a setting that allows men to freely do what they want without gender constraints, and expects a woman to stay at home and fulfill her responsibilities to her family and husband first, and then maybe
The idea that in many urban setting during Donne’s time, the male figure would be the one who went out to work in an outside setting. The narrative using the last sentence to use the state that a person who works more than they love their wife as equal to a person with a mistress and since most mistressed were women, the last lines helped me cycle back to my primary hypothesis that the narrator was a female. This doesn’t change much of the central themes in the poem that Donne created, but it could add onto the our analyzation of the poem and its implications of gender norms and understanding why a female would desire to keep her companion in a setting that allows men to freely do what they want without gender constraints, and expects a woman to stay at home and fulfill her responsibilities to her family and husband first, and then maybe