Consider the following situations. In the first, you are an educator at the local university. You hear there is a crazed man demanding to see one of your students. Upon hiding the student in the room, you tell the man that the student did not attend class today and you don’t know where he is. Conversely, you work for a large company in New York, and it is your secretary is leaving in a few days for maternity leave.…
Ericsson, Stephanie. “The Ways We Lie.” Ezinarticles, 20 April 2009, ezinarticles.com/Stephanie-Ericsson,-The-Ways-We-Lie&id=376173. Accessed 06 November 2017. There are many forms of lying, some of which include doing so unconsciously.…
Imagine having to hide a certain action or event from a person who is close, whether hiding it requires distorting the truth or avoiding them so that it is not accidentally brought up. However, it can be easily seen that revealing what has actually happened would end anxiety caused by struggling to hide it, regardless of whether it is accepted or rejected by others. In a novel called The Pigman by Paul Zindel, the three main characters, John Conlan, Lorraine Jensen, and Mr. Pignati, learn that being honest and “coming clean” to close ones is always the best choice of action. Additionally, they could see that hiding the truth would only make others seem more distant and unapproachable, and continually cause feelings of guilt. One of Benjamin…
An Essay on Truthfulness, Deceit, and the Growth and Care of Erotic Love by Clancy Martin provides an interesting perspective on love, marriage, and happiness. Clancy Martin argues that a large majority of people cannot comprehend true love because of self-deception and deception to their significant other. There is a stigma that true love depends on complete and utter honesty and that is simply not true. Love is many things like eroticism, deceitfulness, and satisfaction but it is not complete honesty. He discusses how we as humans commonly lie and we are taught deception at a young age and this in turn carries into our adulthood.…
Jack Alspaugh Mrs. Wilkerson English 12-1 31 March 2015 Modern Day Macbeth Hiding the truth is something all humans are guilty of at some point or another. Some people will go to extreme measures to hide their secrets from the world.…
Lying is something that all humans do. Whether you lie for good or for bad, it is in our human nature to do so. People lie for many reasons, a lie can be big or small. For example in the play, The Crucible, by Arthur Miller, it shows the consequences of lying. The characters, Elizabeth Proctor, Abigail Williams, Samuel Parris, and Thomas Putnam all lie for different reasons.…
1. (Summary) List and Describe or Define the different “Lies” Ericsson discusses. (Response) Would you add any? List and describe them.…
n “The Ways We Lie,” author Stephanie Ericsson does a great job of explaining how and why everyone lies. Ericsson makes serval points that lying isn’t necessarily bad, however sometimes lies can have severer consequences. For this particular writing the audience is everybody, because she argues that everyone lies. Ericsson’s use of historical events provide logos or logical reasoning. She also apples to pathos by reaching to her audience emotions.…
Everyone lies. Various scenarios prompt people to deceive others, to protect one’s self, to protect one’s family, and to protect one’s reputation. A lie is a statement used for the purpose of deception for one’s reputation or name. In Salem, Massachusetts, one’s name and reputation means everything because if one has a bad name, he or she will not receive trust or respect. This play suggests that lying is vital at certain times and that many people hope to achieve an exceptional reputation through lying.…
Deborah Tannen, in “Sex, Lies, and Conversation,” an essay published in the 1990 The Washington Post, addressed misunderstandings to curb controversies regarding a chapter from Tannen’s 1986 book That’s Not What I Meant!. Tannen, a teacher at Georgetown University provides the public with scholarly research in the battlefield of communication between the sexes; bringing to light the stereotypical debate to whom is at fault in the negative communicational skills that endanger relationships. Stephanie Ericsson, in “The Ways We Lie,” a cover article from a 1993 issue of the Utne Reader, references life experiences, classifications, and quotes to rationalize the human need to lie. Ericsson, a screenwriter, a copywriter, and a recovering addict uses personal experiences to persuade readers that lying is an art form that cannot be lived without sending the assumption that lying is as vital to life as air is to breathing. Ericsson states “Sure I lie, but it doesn’t hurt anything.”…
the recent discussions of the intentions of lies, an issue has arisen about the selfishness of lies. On one hand, some argue that lies which are created with the feelings of others in mind are never selfish. On the other hand, others argue that all lies are based on selfish needs. They claim that every lie, no matter how small, is created from the selfish nature of people that want to better themselves. In short, the issue is whether lies can ever assist others.…
By acknowledging that stereotypes were also considered lies. Judging one person by their gender, skin color or status and applying it to others, may, in the end, be assuming over real facts. Ericsson states “We lie. We all do. We exaggerate, we minimize, we avoid confrontation, we spare people’s feelings, we conveniently forget, we keep secrets, we justify lying to the big-guy institutions.”…
veryday life, conflicts arise that pose the decision of whether or not to tell the truth. In the New York Times article titled “How Honesty Could Make You Happier”, Judi Ketteler explores the effect being truthful has on her own morale and happiness/satisfaction. Ketteler’s 6-year-old daughter once claimed that telling truths made her feel “gold in her brain”. Inspired by this, Ketteler decided to test her daughter’s theory by keeping a truth journal. For several months, she recorded any instances that prompted a choice between truth and lie, and then noted how telling the truth made her feel.…
They are unjustified because the primary cause of the lie is to evade social responsibilities just like Jack does in the play (Benderly…
Honesty is the avoidance of knowingly deceiving yourself or others. Honesty means not lying, cheating, or stealing, whether it is done with malicious intent or not. This holds true even in situations where dishonesty seems like the easy way out. Perhaps one of the least considered, and possibly most difficult, aspects of honesty is being honest with oneself. Everyone has moments where lying may seem like the easy way out.…