In the house, Mariam is the one who cooks and prepares the meal for the family, since they do not have money, she does the best she can to make sure they have food on the table when it is time to eat. She is the one who protects Laila when Rasheed beats her. For example, “The first thing she saw when she sat up was Rasheed. He was lying on his back, staring at nothing with an unblinking, fish-mouthed expression. A bit of foam, lightly pink, had dribbled from his mouth down his cheek……
She only got to see him once a week. She was known as harami, which meant bastard child. At the age of 15, Mariam ran away causing her mother to commit suicide. Mariam had to live with the guilt her entire life. She ended up getting married to Rasheed, which was very abusive towards her.…
life continues in this way until Laila, Rasheed’s soon to be second wife, is rescued from the rubble. Both wives along with Laila daughters try to survive an oppressive society and Rasheed savage beatings. In the end Mariam makes a huge sacrifice to help Laila gain her freedom from Rasheed to marry the father of her first child. She kills him while he is attempting to murder Laila, she then pays for this selfless act with her own life.…
This explains that at one point of their marriage Fariba loved Hakim, similar to Mariam and Rasheed 's story. Soon after their marriage, they have two sons, which leave off to war and this causes fights between the two parents because of their son 's absences. In contrast, Rasheed once had a son and tries to have a son with Mariam, but fails to deliver one, hence stresses the point that both families go through arguments, since they don 't have any sons. In essence, the introduction of Laila, expands on the relationship expectations and how they affect one…
(E) When Babi takes Laila and Tariq to the top of the Bamiyan Buddha, Laila begins to see a different perspective of Afghanistan. She sees a small self-sufficient community, unlike the community of Kabul, which is busy and large. Laila starts to realize that there is so much more out in the world for herself and her family. This incredibly valuable to Laila because she will always remember that there is more that Kabul, there is a more peaceful pace to spend her life in. Babi also recognizes that he could move his family to a beautiful place like this and live a life away for the high anxiety city they inhabit, but Mammy is holding them back, even more than she already would have before the death of her sons.…
This leads Mariam to feeling isolated within her household, and an outcast among society, keeping her from achieving her dreams. Because of Mariam’s discouraging mother she has a hard time gaining self-confidence, and the self-esteem needed at an early age to chase her ambitions, hindering her from achieving happiness. Furthermore, Mariam also feels isolated within her family. While Mariam is being forced to marry off to Rasheed, her last words to her father are,” I used to worship you . . . On Thursdays, I sat for hours waiting for you . . .…
Mariam was then left with her father, Jalil, and his other family, only to be sent away with a new husband, Rasheed, who turns out to be abusive towards women. When the Taliban invaded Afghanistan they demolished many houses, one of them was Mariam’s neighbor, Laila. Rasheed decided to marry Laila as she was still young and fertile. After Laila gives birth to her daughter Aziza, her and Mariam try to run away, but were soon…
When Mariam heard the story, it was the first time that day she cried. The memory the man told Mariam made her come to conclusion that killing Rasheed was the only option, due to her realizing if it wasn’t Rasheed getting murdered, it would have been Laila, Aziza, and Mariam meeting death. With her killing him, only she will have to face the consequences and death, not her beloved family. She wanted her family to have a life she always dreamed of that is filled with happiness and love, so she gave them the opportunity to fulfill that fantasy and turn it into a reality. The act of killing Rasheed was not her defining moment, because it was just her caught in the heat of the moment.…
1.How does Laila’s life in Murree contrast with her life in Kabul? Laila 's life in Murree is much better than her life in Kabul. She is safer due to the fact that Rasheed is no longer abusing her or her children and is now in the hands Tariq. In Kabul she was forced to things she wasn 't comfortable doing and forced her to keep herself shut. In Pakistan she has the freedom to do things she couldn 't do while she was in Kabul.…
Rasheed’s idea of comparing Laila and Mariam also puts the two at distrust and hostility. Thus prevents Mariam and Laila from taking comfort in one’s another company because of Mariam’s jealousy. In Spring 1993, Rasheed and Laila go to the hospital to deliver the baby. The baby is one of the main factors that gave Mariam strength because in all her life of being with Rasheed, she hasn't once felt loved and appreciated. Ever since Mariam become fond of Aziza, she began to adore her and Aziza gave the same feeling back.…
Rasheed believes that it was Mariam’s fault that Laila hasn’t been listening to him lately, therefore, he wants to beat Mariam. Before he is able to strike Mariam with the belt, Laila attempts to stop him: “The girl lunged at him. she grabbed his arm with both hands and tried to drag him down, but she could do no…
Mariam’s preferences about her face covered were irrelevant because Rasheed preferences were for her face to be covered at all times. She did not have the option of not having her face covered. Rasheed’s preferences were to have a second wife Laila, which Mariam did not agree with. Rasheed acted on his preferences and married Laila. The marriage of Rasheed and Laila showed that Mariam rights were limited and her preferences were overtrumped by Rasheed’s preferences.…
Mariam and Laila are “poles apart in their disposition and conduct” (Akhtar, Rauf, Ikram, Raees). If the novel had been set in Afghanistan in peace, it would have been a “ story of contrasts,” a life of “stark deprivation” for Mariam and a privileged, professional career for Laila ((Akhtar, Rauf, Ikram, Raees). But war drags the two women to the same level, destroying both their families. While Mariam remains passive, Laila refuses to back down, punching Rasheed after he tries to hurt her and ignoring his rules. By contrast, Mariam seems even more submissive until the novel’s climax, when Mariam chooses to kill Rasheed to save Laila’s life.…
In her own way, Mariam faces the hardest oppressions that affect her the most internally, out of all the female characters in the novel. Growing up as an illegitimate child, Mariam faced shame from not only her Mom who resented her, her biological Dad who wanted nothing to do with her, but society as well. The shame Mariam had for herself left her with very little confidence and was forbid by society to take part in things like family, love, or acceptance. Mariam faces oppression from the patriarchal society of Taliban Afghanistan throughout her entire life, but primarily the most severely after her arranged marriage to Rasheed, a local shoemaker, at the age of 15. Mariam’s father set up the arranged marriage, Mariam became pregnant with Rasheeds baby, but soon after has a miscarriage.…
Six miscarriages and one baby girl later, Rasheed is furious. In fact Rasheed is irritated about everything; Mariam cannot seem to do one thing right. On a quiet evening Mariam gets abused for not cooking the rice to Rasheed’s liking:”’ What’s the matter?’ he mewled, mimicking her.’…