Lack Of Self-Determination In A Life Of Milkman

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Milkman responds to his perceived lack of self-determination by becoming a bystander in his own life. Although he demonstrates enough self-awareness to understand his position, as he reflects that he “never acted independently,” Milkman lacks the motivation to truly work through his thoughts and emotions to decide for himself how to live and what to value. For much of chapters 2 through 7, Milkman seems destined to be a product of his father, unable to break from Macon’s control even when it proves to be detrimental. Even as a young child, Macon’s reputation has an undeniable influence on Milkman’s life, to the point where Guitar must plead for his acceptance because “’He can’t help who his daddy is.’” This association with Macon extends far

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