Kiyomi Scoville

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For Kiyomi Scoville it had always seemed that her life was meant to be a certain way and certain qualities were required for her success but upon further inspection of the world around her as well as herself and the comparison of reality and illusion her life transformed. The worth of a person cannot be measured by numbers or personal beliefs, it is measured by the individual on how proud and pleased they are with themselves. In the world surrounding Kiyomi society and media largely impact who people choose to portray themselves as and how they look at themselves but these impacts shouldn’t have as much power as they do. These images of the ideal person are directed to very influential ages, namely teens who have yet figured out exactly who they want to be and where they fit into the …show more content…
and within each of those qualities lay another infinite amount of possibilities. On the other hand unlike numbers people are not meant to be measurable and cannot be singularly defined. Initially, Kiyomi’s experience started out as her reality but as she grew as a person the realization of those realities being illusions came about, and new realities were formed. As a result of the illusions she had once chosen to believe in differing from what she later decided was the reality, her opinions on how she saw herself, who she chose to surround herself with, and what she chose to believe in transformed significantly throughout the passing year. The overall transformation and changing of choices led to her expanding happiness and contentment with life as well as having a much more positive mindset, the transformations also allowed her to be in a much different place than the previous year of her

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