She was forced into manipulating him by adults, and only did it because she believed it was right. When she had the opportunity to speak with him she talked about how he needed to save the world and kill the buggers. Valentine also stated that, “we play by their rules long enough, and it becomes our game.” She told Ender to play along and try his best to follow instructions until he could take control. This advice was not helpful to Ender, who would now be discouraged to fight for what he believed was right. This lake-side conversation with Valentine put some bad ideas into him. It made him think that Graff and Anderson were not controlling him, but helping him, that he had to fight the Buggers, and that he must just wait for things to get better. Although Valentine manipulated Ender, it was because she was doing to help him and because she was
She was forced into manipulating him by adults, and only did it because she believed it was right. When she had the opportunity to speak with him she talked about how he needed to save the world and kill the buggers. Valentine also stated that, “we play by their rules long enough, and it becomes our game.” She told Ender to play along and try his best to follow instructions until he could take control. This advice was not helpful to Ender, who would now be discouraged to fight for what he believed was right. This lake-side conversation with Valentine put some bad ideas into him. It made him think that Graff and Anderson were not controlling him, but helping him, that he had to fight the Buggers, and that he must just wait for things to get better. Although Valentine manipulated Ender, it was because she was doing to help him and because she was