While I understand emotions often trump intellect in a post-divorce universe, but seriously Cookie, what does Kalup’s current age have anything to do with him requiring less support? He is sixteen, not eighteen and graduated from high school… currently scheduled for June of 2020.
Additionally, please stop making Kalup out to be a charity, because raising him is not a game of narcissism and rewards for monetary support. Enough with the illogical reasoning’s on how you’ve paid enough, and behaving as if treated with some injustice for financially supporting our son. It’s exhausting, and frankly, nonsense. This amount that you seem to think is so unfair is a number your lawyer came up with when I was working for QVC, and you were an E5 (check your 2008 correspondence for reference). Additionally, you were supposed to submit your financial information after our bankruptcy was completed to find out how much child support you are required to pay per Florida, but you have refused time and again (once more, check your correspondences for reference). In other words, enough with the blame placing and have some accountability for your actions. …show more content…
Maybe try putting down the inconsequential items you waste your energy on and reach out to our son. Pick up a phone, shoot him an email, or better yet, pick him up and take him fishing, teach him to change a tire, or adequately shave his face. Show him how to polish his dress shoes or how to lift weights properly… put an effort! Stop holding a grudge for whatever reason you began it. You have a life out here maturing into an amazing young man, and the longer you push him away, the harder it’s going to be to mend your
Additionally, please stop making Kalup out to be a charity, because raising him is not a game of narcissism and rewards for monetary support. Enough with the illogical reasoning’s on how you’ve paid enough, and behaving as if treated with some injustice for financially supporting our son. It’s exhausting, and frankly, nonsense. This amount that you seem to think is so unfair is a number your lawyer came up with when I was working for QVC, and you were an E5 (check your 2008 correspondence for reference). Additionally, you were supposed to submit your financial information after our bankruptcy was completed to find out how much child support you are required to pay per Florida, but you have refused time and again (once more, check your correspondences for reference). In other words, enough with the blame placing and have some accountability for your actions. …show more content…
Maybe try putting down the inconsequential items you waste your energy on and reach out to our son. Pick up a phone, shoot him an email, or better yet, pick him up and take him fishing, teach him to change a tire, or adequately shave his face. Show him how to polish his dress shoes or how to lift weights properly… put an effort! Stop holding a grudge for whatever reason you began it. You have a life out here maturing into an amazing young man, and the longer you push him away, the harder it’s going to be to mend your