While having genuine talks with other individuals, particularly those whose emotions you care for, the words you use to express your point are crucial. However, when …show more content…
So with him, she spoke in moods and gestures, looks and silences, and sometimes a combination of English punctuated by hesitations and Chinese frustration: "Shwo buchulai" – Words cannot come out. So my father would put words in her mouth. "I think Mom is trying to say she’s tired," he would whisper when my mother became moody. Understanding each other is an important thing to have in a relationship, however because of a complicating language barrier, communication is made extremely troublesome between Ying-ying and her husband. Inside the memoir, language assumes an extremely important part in the character's lives. The moms of the girls in the novel are all chinese workers who are not very familiar with English. However their children speak English very well since they were all conceived in born in America and English was their primary language.In the begining of the memoir, the account of a lady moving from China with a swan feather is told. The lady in the story needed to have the capacity to advise her little girl one thing. The novel states,”This feather may look worthless, but it comes from afar and carries with it all my good intentions." And she waited, year after year, for the day she could tell her daughter this in perfect American English.” The lady in this story has a fundamentally similar experience to that of the mother of one of the daughters. She needs to