Jeff Haden, one of the most influential and popular people on Linkedln and the author of almost 30 business and communication books, explained how some people can easily gain the trust of everyone and create a positive image of themselves.
Bro-like invites you to puzzle out what these nine characteristics are that make a person very charming.
They’re not afraid to lose
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Charming people don’t try to win at everything. On the contrary, their aim is to give more without expecting anything in return. For them, it’s not difficult to admit their mistakes, failures, or talk about their weaknesses. And it’s something that not everyone can do.
They can openly say, “I’m jealous of you,“ or ”I can’t do this, please teach me," because they …show more content…
When you’re ready to demonstrate your weaknesses and you’re not afraid to look silly, people don’t laugh at you. They laugh with you. Because everybody understands that all of this is fine.
They’re good at asking questions
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Charming people can very easily make you talk about yourself. They don’t hesitate to ask questions and openly talk about themselves as well. These people genuinely want to know what you’re thinking, and this makes them trustworthy.
As soon as you’ve found out something about a particular person, just ask them more questions about it and tell something similar about yourself. This will show you have something in common that can become an interesting topic for conversation.
They always remember names
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Charismatic people always remember names and other little things very accurately. The fact that someone says your name when you have only known each other for a short while or when you have only met once makes you feel more important in the conversation.
Call the person by name, and remember the names of his friends, relatives, or a pet. This person will only think positively of you.
They listen more and talk
Bro-like invites you to puzzle out what these nine characteristics are that make a person very charming.
They’re not afraid to lose
© The CW
Charming people don’t try to win at everything. On the contrary, their aim is to give more without expecting anything in return. For them, it’s not difficult to admit their mistakes, failures, or talk about their weaknesses. And it’s something that not everyone can do.
They can openly say, “I’m jealous of you,“ or ”I can’t do this, please teach me," because they …show more content…
When you’re ready to demonstrate your weaknesses and you’re not afraid to look silly, people don’t laugh at you. They laugh with you. Because everybody understands that all of this is fine.
They’re good at asking questions
© 20th Century Fox
Charming people can very easily make you talk about yourself. They don’t hesitate to ask questions and openly talk about themselves as well. These people genuinely want to know what you’re thinking, and this makes them trustworthy.
As soon as you’ve found out something about a particular person, just ask them more questions about it and tell something similar about yourself. This will show you have something in common that can become an interesting topic for conversation.
They always remember names
© taylorswift
Charismatic people always remember names and other little things very accurately. The fact that someone says your name when you have only known each other for a short while or when you have only met once makes you feel more important in the conversation.
Call the person by name, and remember the names of his friends, relatives, or a pet. This person will only think positively of you.
They listen more and talk