There are many different types of relationships; some are great, while others may have negative aspects to them. One of the biggest factors that damage interpersonal relationships is jealousy; another major aspect is violence.
Jealousy is “a negative emotion about our relationship” (DeVito, 2015, p. 277), it is a form of anger which sometimes causes violence within the relationship. There are three main components of jealousy, they are: behavioral, emotional, and cognitive. Behavioral jealousy is the actions taken in response to the jealousy; this could be mate guarding such as vigilance, concealment or even monopoly. These actions could include looking for reasons where a partner may be lost to someone else, avoiding situations where you would …show more content…
There are three types of violence, as described by Joseph DeVito; they are physical, emotional, and sexual abuse. Physical abuse is “any intentional and unwanted contact with you or something close to your body” examples of this would be punching, throwing objects, or forcing you to perform a sexual act. Examples of emotional abuse are threats, stalking and constant monitoring. It may also involve name calling, making you feel guilty or deciding who you are allowed to see. The definition of sexual abuse is an action that pressures a person to perform a sexual act that they do not want to. This may involve rape, keeping someone from using contraception, or not having clear and informed consent (“Types of Abuse – …show more content…
First, you must communicate with your partner; express your feelings and be honest, attempt to understand their point of view. Do your best to avoid denying that you are feeling hurt, being verbally aggressive, or crying; these actions are most likely not going to get you very far (DeVito, 2015, p.279). Knowing warning signs is also very important; some of these may be controlling the money, making all of the decisions, belittling you, or even demanding permission to leave the house (Varcarolis, 2013, p. 420). You should realize that violent behavior is wrong, get help and devise a plan to get out of your situation. (“Types of Abuse – www.loveisrespect.org”). Being in a violent relationship is scary, but there are people to help victims and help them with resources. The victim is not alone and they do not deserve to be treated the way that they are. As the victim, it may also be important to help your partner realize that their behaviors are inappropriate and lead them to someone who can help them (DeVito, 2015, p.
Jealousy is “a negative emotion about our relationship” (DeVito, 2015, p. 277), it is a form of anger which sometimes causes violence within the relationship. There are three main components of jealousy, they are: behavioral, emotional, and cognitive. Behavioral jealousy is the actions taken in response to the jealousy; this could be mate guarding such as vigilance, concealment or even monopoly. These actions could include looking for reasons where a partner may be lost to someone else, avoiding situations where you would …show more content…
There are three types of violence, as described by Joseph DeVito; they are physical, emotional, and sexual abuse. Physical abuse is “any intentional and unwanted contact with you or something close to your body” examples of this would be punching, throwing objects, or forcing you to perform a sexual act. Examples of emotional abuse are threats, stalking and constant monitoring. It may also involve name calling, making you feel guilty or deciding who you are allowed to see. The definition of sexual abuse is an action that pressures a person to perform a sexual act that they do not want to. This may involve rape, keeping someone from using contraception, or not having clear and informed consent (“Types of Abuse – …show more content…
First, you must communicate with your partner; express your feelings and be honest, attempt to understand their point of view. Do your best to avoid denying that you are feeling hurt, being verbally aggressive, or crying; these actions are most likely not going to get you very far (DeVito, 2015, p.279). Knowing warning signs is also very important; some of these may be controlling the money, making all of the decisions, belittling you, or even demanding permission to leave the house (Varcarolis, 2013, p. 420). You should realize that violent behavior is wrong, get help and devise a plan to get out of your situation. (“Types of Abuse – www.loveisrespect.org”). Being in a violent relationship is scary, but there are people to help victims and help them with resources. The victim is not alone and they do not deserve to be treated the way that they are. As the victim, it may also be important to help your partner realize that their behaviors are inappropriate and lead them to someone who can help them (DeVito, 2015, p.