SIBLING RIVALRY! WHY & HOW IT HAPPENS?
As siblings get older, they may show their jealousy by arguing, name-calling, teasing, pushing, and occasionally fighting.
Toddlers may worry about sharing their toys, books etc. because of which he may be yell & Shout at the Younger one.
Take comfort that children who fight the most in their early years are often the closest as they get older.
Competitiveness between siblings is perhaps good preparation for when they enter the wider world.
The Toddler won’t just understand his feelings of jealousy, or what he can do about that annoying newborn. He just wants your attention, and may react by misbehaving or even regressing.
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It can be tough for an elder Sibling to deal with the New Sibling Arrival as all the Parents attention directly diverts towards him/her. Hence these may not go well with the Elder siblings or toddlers. It is completely natural for your child to be jealous of a new baby. I feel there is no child in the world who has not been jealous when a new sibling arrives. The toddlers aim is to get at the brother or sister who is breaking their toys, spoiling their games, or stealing their parents' attention.
But you can help them overcome these jealousy & be happy with their Siblings by just doing these simple things.
Tell your toddler about the approaching birth
Firstly, Tell your toddler what will happen when the baby arrives like your time would be divided, toys would also be divided for that matter.
Share some time together.
Spend some time each day with just your toddler, even if it's only a few minutes of drawing or building with blocks. This time makes him feel special and reminds him that you're his mommy as well as the baby's.
Praise is all matters.
Praise him & acknowledge his feelings because after all, he suddenly has to share you with someone who requires an extraordinary amount of your time and