By refusing to marry Mr. Rochester the first time Jane shows how important a moral aspect in a relationship is to her. When she finds out that he is already married to another woman, Jane puts moral convictions over love and refuses to stay in the bigamous relationship with Mr. Rochester. Additionally, by rejecting St. John and passing over a loveless relationship, Jane demonstrates her need for passion in a marriage. Furthermore, her rejection of him also reveals that Jane looks for compatibility. She views marriage as a relationship where the two people complete each other and are partners. For St. John however, marriage is the opportunity to find a woman who is subservient to him, an idea anathema to Jane. While the relationship would be a moral one, Jane refuses to livea passionless life while being married. She also realizes the importance of the man and woman being in harmony when it comes to how they feel the relationship should be. Finally, when Jane marries Mr. Rochester after returning to him, she shows all that she desires from a marriage as well as showing that she refuses to settle for less. Charlotte Bronte uses Jane as a tool to exhibit basic dynamics women should strive for in a marriage. Through the opportunities that Jane has to marry and her responses to each of them, Jane reveals all the aspects she feels will make a marriage work and what she needs, and shows that she will not settle for anything
By refusing to marry Mr. Rochester the first time Jane shows how important a moral aspect in a relationship is to her. When she finds out that he is already married to another woman, Jane puts moral convictions over love and refuses to stay in the bigamous relationship with Mr. Rochester. Additionally, by rejecting St. John and passing over a loveless relationship, Jane demonstrates her need for passion in a marriage. Furthermore, her rejection of him also reveals that Jane looks for compatibility. She views marriage as a relationship where the two people complete each other and are partners. For St. John however, marriage is the opportunity to find a woman who is subservient to him, an idea anathema to Jane. While the relationship would be a moral one, Jane refuses to livea passionless life while being married. She also realizes the importance of the man and woman being in harmony when it comes to how they feel the relationship should be. Finally, when Jane marries Mr. Rochester after returning to him, she shows all that she desires from a marriage as well as showing that she refuses to settle for less. Charlotte Bronte uses Jane as a tool to exhibit basic dynamics women should strive for in a marriage. Through the opportunities that Jane has to marry and her responses to each of them, Jane reveals all the aspects she feels will make a marriage work and what she needs, and shows that she will not settle for anything