Elinor is the more restrained, composed, level-headed sister. Unlike her younger sister, Marianne, and her mother, she has the sense of the family. She is able to deal with situations and her emotions in a more mature and responsible way. On the other hand, Marianne was more spontaneous and sensitive. She possesses an unrealistic idealism of romance and finds herself senselessly reacting to her circumstances. This disparity presents itself throughout the book in the way the sisters react to their circumstances and love lives. Marianne perceives her emotions in a completely different way from her sister, and in a way that she feels others are not able to. Because Elinor is much more calm in the way that she reacts to circumstances, Marianne thinks that Elinor does not understand or empathize with her rejection from Willoughby. Marianne is so egotistical and concerned with her own feelings that she does not even think of her sister’s struggles. “Oh! how easy for those who have no sorrow of their own to talk of exertion! Happy, happy Elinor, you cannot have an idea of what I suffer” (138). In this scene, Marianne shows her true character, in that she is so self-absorbed in her own suffering and she is not aware and completely blinds to the issues her sister is also experiencing. This shows her selfishness and inability to see that others may also be experiencing pain. This theme of Sense and Sensibility continues throughout the novel as Austen illustrates the contrasting differences in the sisters. Elinor is the more collected, and evolved sister; able to handle unfortunate situations in a calm and logical manner, while her sister Marianne is not capable of coping with her misfortune rationally. Another example of how these characteristics show the selfishness of Marianne is when Elinor and Marianne leave London with Mr. and Mrs. Palmer to visit them at their estate at Cleveland. While at
Elinor is the more restrained, composed, level-headed sister. Unlike her younger sister, Marianne, and her mother, she has the sense of the family. She is able to deal with situations and her emotions in a more mature and responsible way. On the other hand, Marianne was more spontaneous and sensitive. She possesses an unrealistic idealism of romance and finds herself senselessly reacting to her circumstances. This disparity presents itself throughout the book in the way the sisters react to their circumstances and love lives. Marianne perceives her emotions in a completely different way from her sister, and in a way that she feels others are not able to. Because Elinor is much more calm in the way that she reacts to circumstances, Marianne thinks that Elinor does not understand or empathize with her rejection from Willoughby. Marianne is so egotistical and concerned with her own feelings that she does not even think of her sister’s struggles. “Oh! how easy for those who have no sorrow of their own to talk of exertion! Happy, happy Elinor, you cannot have an idea of what I suffer” (138). In this scene, Marianne shows her true character, in that she is so self-absorbed in her own suffering and she is not aware and completely blinds to the issues her sister is also experiencing. This shows her selfishness and inability to see that others may also be experiencing pain. This theme of Sense and Sensibility continues throughout the novel as Austen illustrates the contrasting differences in the sisters. Elinor is the more collected, and evolved sister; able to handle unfortunate situations in a calm and logical manner, while her sister Marianne is not capable of coping with her misfortune rationally. Another example of how these characteristics show the selfishness of Marianne is when Elinor and Marianne leave London with Mr. and Mrs. Palmer to visit them at their estate at Cleveland. While at