It's Not You It Me Research Paper

“It’s not you, it’s me,” this is one of the many phrases people use to break up with other people. When two people are in a relationship romantically whether for a short or long period of time it is not always going to work out. Popular reasons for breaking up can vary from being too busy, to one person or both persons cheating on the other. Based on the relationship and how the breakup is done there can be a wide variety of emotional reactions. Rejection can cause emotional strief. When being dumped by your partner no matter how great the connection it causes some distress due to rejection. When dumping someone you are rejecting them which causes tension, either with the person or the decision. Mutual breakups have less tension than, being dumped or dumping someone, due to the tension being split between both partners. Being dumped is a form of rejection. Reasons for being dumped are endless. You could have lied, cheated or you may simply be in a different stage of life than where they want to be. Regardless of the reason the person is disconnecting from you. This rejection causes distress no matter how deep the connection was. When dumped it can cause you to …show more content…
It is easier to reject someone then get rejected. It is not difficult to find flaws in other people. Partners can lie, cheat, miscommunicate, or disregard your feelings. Let's say that you're dating someone and it is going fairly well but instead of your feelings getting stronger they’re disappearing. While you feel the need to break up with them there is still tension because you don't want to hurt them. Another scenario of this is if you felt pressured to do something, like to stay the night with your partner, and you were not comfortable with this. You keep turning them down but they continue to pressure you. The tension will continue to build up until you finally had enough, and decide to put an end to the