Is Emily Made Or The Choice The Mother Made?

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The narration of the story is by the mother who recounted her the memories of her daughter Emily who she has little time taking care. She felt bad that she not being there for Emily during her childhood because her circumstance does not allows her to do so. After reading the story I felt that some of the choice the mother made could have been made differently in regard of raising Emily. She felt bad not being able to probably cared for Emily she should not have given birth to more children and neglect her. Putting her in a childcare where Emily got mistreated.

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