However just like the poem, if it is looked at a little closer it is easy to see the pain those substances cause as well. The mother in “My Papa’s Waltz” is the prime example: “My mother’s countenance/ Could not unfrown itself” (7-8). His mother feels a great deal of pain and humiliation because her husband replaced her with whisky. In my opinion all that a dependent relationship on a substance does is hurt. It can be the direct family that is being subjected to it through humiliation of their drunken mom, dad, or daughter wreaking havoc or stumbling around barely able to walk. Yet it can also hurt someone else that is not connected in that way. I personally know a police officer that was just doing his job by taking a drunk driver off the road when he was struck and permanently injured by another careless drunk
However just like the poem, if it is looked at a little closer it is easy to see the pain those substances cause as well. The mother in “My Papa’s Waltz” is the prime example: “My mother’s countenance/ Could not unfrown itself” (7-8). His mother feels a great deal of pain and humiliation because her husband replaced her with whisky. In my opinion all that a dependent relationship on a substance does is hurt. It can be the direct family that is being subjected to it through humiliation of their drunken mom, dad, or daughter wreaking havoc or stumbling around barely able to walk. Yet it can also hurt someone else that is not connected in that way. I personally know a police officer that was just doing his job by taking a drunk driver off the road when he was struck and permanently injured by another careless drunk