I’m an INFJ, and I have many good values about my personality. If my friends come to me to ask me a question, I like to find the perfect solution for them. The question they asked me will always be on my mind until we figure out an answer to their problem. To be able to be a good counselor you have to be a good listener, and that’s what my personality type is. INFJ’s are very good listeners, and we are reassuring to others around us. Now, sometimes figuring people’s problems out can be difficult, but that’s ok because INFJ’s are not afraid of hard work. Even when that means it takes weeks for INFJ’s to find peace in things, but I like everything to be harmonized. Another good trait about my personality type is that I can have an inspirational
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One weakness that I have is that I am a perfectionist. Being a perfectionist can be a very helpful trait to have, however it can also be a very difficult trait to deal with. With being a perfectionist, things can get complicated. If I’m working on a project and something relatively small gets in the way, it becomes a major block in the road. Therefore because I’m a perfectionist I have very high self expectations, so I get stressed out when I mess up. As a consequence of being so stressed, I get my priorities confused. I also unfortunately dropout of sports when the conflict gets too high, or when I’m not “perfect” at the subject. In addition to being a perfectionist, I also am very sensitive to criticism. I often get discouraged when I get criticized, and then I get even more stressed out because I think I’m not perfect at that subject. Another weakness I have as an INFJ is that I’m very private. I always hide my my emotions from new people I haven’t known for a good period of time. I restrict a part of myself, so only close friends and family members see all of me. One last flaw that I have as an INFJ is that I rely on my emotions rather than facts. Now that can be a positive thing, but that can also be a negative concern when it comes to relationships. INFJ’s have a hard time leaving unhealthy relationships, even when the fact is that it’s not healthy for us to be in that relationship. We will rely on our
One weakness that I have is that I am a perfectionist. Being a perfectionist can be a very helpful trait to have, however it can also be a very difficult trait to deal with. With being a perfectionist, things can get complicated. If I’m working on a project and something relatively small gets in the way, it becomes a major block in the road. Therefore because I’m a perfectionist I have very high self expectations, so I get stressed out when I mess up. As a consequence of being so stressed, I get my priorities confused. I also unfortunately dropout of sports when the conflict gets too high, or when I’m not “perfect” at the subject. In addition to being a perfectionist, I also am very sensitive to criticism. I often get discouraged when I get criticized, and then I get even more stressed out because I think I’m not perfect at that subject. Another weakness I have as an INFJ is that I’m very private. I always hide my my emotions from new people I haven’t known for a good period of time. I restrict a part of myself, so only close friends and family members see all of me. One last flaw that I have as an INFJ is that I rely on my emotions rather than facts. Now that can be a positive thing, but that can also be a negative concern when it comes to relationships. INFJ’s have a hard time leaving unhealthy relationships, even when the fact is that it’s not healthy for us to be in that relationship. We will rely on our