Infatuation In Shakespeare's Romeo And Juliet

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Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet, is a world famous play about two young people, Romeo and Juliet, who fell in love even though their families are enemies. In the end they both kill themselves and it fixes the families feud. When reading this play many people wonder, are Romeo and Juliet really in love? Love is a true, deep emotion, that’s is often long lasting of devotion. While infatuation is fake love, that is obsessed over, unreasoned, rushed, and often physical. Because of these definitions you realize Romeo and Juliet were not really in love but infatuated with each other

Romeo doesn’t love Juliet because he just wants to be in love with a beautiful woman. Before Romeo met Juliet he claimed he loved Rosaline, but she didn’t like him back, yet he was convinced his love was deep. When talking to Benvolio he said, “A right good mark-man! and she’s fair I love.” (I i 197) He believed he was completely in love with Rosaline, but then thought Juliet was prettier. If he forgot and threw away his love for Rosaline that fast, why wouldn’t he do the same with Juliet? The only difference is Juliet
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Infatuation is based on beauty and looks, while love is about more, and when Friar Lawrence is shocked Romeo had switched

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