When it comes to the topic of individuality and conformity, most of us will readily agree that it is better to be oneself then pretend to be someone you are not.Where this agreement usually ends, however, is on the question of there being a healthy middle. Whereas some are convinced that there is a middle others maintain the thought of being a conformist or being completely individual. At the same time that I believe there is a middle between the two, I also believe that one should have their own say in what they want to be.Ultimately,what is at stake here is boys and girls growing up thinking they always have to fit in or be society's version of perfection. The general argument made by Feys in his work, The Sociology of Leopard Man,
