My another problem with my parents is that sometimes they really lack trust on me especially my father. I am asking for suggestions about what club will I choose, then I told them that I want Badminton to be my club and I can do my best in that sport. My father instantly reacted that he doesn’t want it for me because according to him, I already lose a badminton competition before and I will be so stupid to make a mistake of joining a competition that I will surely lose again. I tried another sport which is volleyball; I promise to myself that I will do my best to excel in that field. Few days later, he again reacted that volleyball is a sport for women ONLY. I really get confused again, I thought that we already agreed on that sport and now he is contradicting with it. What does he really want? Basketball? He wants a sport that we both know that I don’t really have a passion with. My point here is that he is dictating me of what he wants for me to be without considering my talents, abilities and passion. Can’t they believe on my own …show more content…
There was a time that my father told me that I need to know all things and not just English, Math, Science, Filipino and other academic things. He said that I need to know the places here in Quezon City and other places that I have visited; in fact, even those places are new to my eyes I still need to memorize the places there. And when it is time to recite those places and I have missed one, he will shake his head from side to side to show that he was really disappointed. There are also times that I will be bad-tempered or ‘masungit’ and my father will hate that kind of my attitude. I mean why he can’t accept that I also have a bad attitude. I think all people has good and bad behavior at the same time. Yes, I can be a better person but will never be