The interpersonal conflict
Two weeks ago, I went to mainland China to spend Spring Festival with my family. On Valentine’s day, I went to a Five-Stars Restaurant with my boy-friend. That day is a holiday during the Spring Festival, there was only a few of restaurant opening.
In fact, I had the preparation of crowded on that day, but the situation was exceeding my …show more content…
Only respect others can get respect from others. Another way, if others respect for you without anything, you will love their sincerity. Sincere can help us gain a real friendship. Understanding is necessary for the success of communication. When we can understand each other's situation, feelings, real need, we can be welcome. Learn to think of others and equal to them is also needed.Then a good attitude can help us communicate with them …show more content…
I need to improve my ability of human communication.When I met the problem, I am not calm at that moment.
I think I have double-character in daily life: be warm and cheerful when to stay with friends and quiet if with strangers. I always think I have good communication in daily life because I can keep calm when I communicate with friends and strangers. When to talk with them, I can understand their meanings and say my opinion fluency. So every talking parts are all interesting and funny.
In this situation, I think I am not good at communication. There is some mistake I make.
Firstly, I should be polite to him. When I communicate with others whoever he is, I need polite. Take a revision, if I am polite to say “Sorry, I do not want to share the table on this day” when he need us share, maybe the conflict won’t happen.
Next, I should think about the thing in his opinion. He is only an employee in the restaurant and this is his work to do. If I think about him at that time, I will share at once and do not argue with him.
Then, I should respect for him. He does not do the wrong thing at that day, I need to respect his work and understand him. If I respect him, he will have a good attitude for