I am also glad that this assignment did not turn into an unnecessary argument and that I was able to listen to my husband’s wants and needs. I discovered that we have both have made school a priority and have neglected one of the most important parts of our marriage SEX.
During these past two years we have grown as individuals and our marriage has also become stronger because we have learned to better compromise and spend quality time together. Yet, we have not made time for each other sexually. The discovery that “things have changed,” had a significant impact and we both realized that we have been avoiding the topic of sex that is why we agreed to continue this conversation and try to work on our marriage.
Finally, the assignment was helpful because I was able to talk to my partner and hear directly from him that he feels that we have both neglected our sex life. This assignment helped us recognize that “it is okay that things have changed” because we have reached a level of differentiation in our marriage that we are comfortable with, yet we can still improve. We can still try to fulfill each other’s needs not only emotionally but also