If I M Up Here Analysis

Im standing here in front of all of you .Everything is right,correct? I'm just going to stand up here ,try my best, give my speech and be done ,but what if something was missing ,what if i gave this entire speech with not a single article of clothing on i can guarantee you this whole thing would go a lot differently, but thankfully for everyone my clothes did not abandon me today. what if i'm up here and i had no speech, i was just winging it,choo choo that's the sound of a train wreck but hopefully my words don't abandon me today .abandonment,,, just like having no clothes or no speech, can be very drastic. .So i'm up here ,by myself,,it's me against every single one of you ,and no ones by my side yet i'm still standing up here in front of …show more content…
People today see a problem and they just leave ,thinking that will help, thats not right they are just giving up .The individual choosing to give up on the person and leave them is essentially abandoning a person, because they are cutting themselves ,because they have abandonment issues ,you are continuing the issue you were trying to avoid ,its a vicious cycle.when you leave them because they can't change themselves by themselves ,,that can cause very serious abandonment issues or make them escalate higher if they preexist .The person is forcing them change and that can be hard without the help and counseling a person would need .You can cause the left behind to pretend it or fake it that they don't want to hurt themselves ,which is just lying to themselves and that only lasts a very limited time .what happens when that person realizes that they are lying about their own mental health, to themselves ,just so the person don't leave them .Let's say they do leave them ,even if they say that famous line *oh babe babe babe i promise i'll never leave you* but when they do break it off they'll just say i don't feel the romantic connection anymore ,i don't think we are a good idea ,with not even explaining how they are feeling and they just vanish ...just like that (snap)they're gone .how does that make the person being abandoned feel????this can make that person escalet in self harm maybe even to the point of killing themselves .do people really want to be the cause of that .Now no shoes no shirt yet let's try on some effects, when someone leaves you personally ,you can start to see yourself excluding yourself from society and that can lead to a detrimental downward spiral .The DSM-5 warns that 8-10% of individuals