Identities Conflict
It is impossible that a person who have only one identity in his long life because people all have the different relationship with each other in this complex social. Although I’m a student, I have many identities, for example, like to cook, car buff, good at singing and interested in repair things. Sometimes people will create a conflict of my identity, maybe they don’t know me clearly or some misunderstanding between them and me. So, at first I want to talk about an identify conflict happened in a lunch time with my friend. Although I’m a car buff, many friends don’t know that because I’m not always show how I love cars. Therefore, some friends think I like shopping because …show more content…
It is a strange hobby that I have because my dad taught me how to repair things when I was young. My dad taught me everything include how to install a light bulb, how to repair a blank screen, even how to repair a TV. I’m different between my dad is that I prefer to take things apart while my dad likes to repair things. But at first my friends don’t believe that I can repair things accurately, because I always wear a cute T-shirt, a simple jean and sport shoes and these features marked I’m the high school student. They always think high school student seems like broke things but not repair. I hate my friends calling me high school student and I want to get a respect from my peers, so I knew I would start over in terms of how people viewed me. I helped them to repair a computer, taught them how to install a new TV. During in a birthday party of my friend Kela, the screen didn’t work and it blacked. I separated the host of computer and to checked out if the line is looseness, I put the line into a panel jack and then it works. Although it is a simple way to repair the computer, some of my friend don’t call me high school student anymore and also they did respect for me after I repair some broken items.
My father knows I repaired these broken things in school, he feels so pride of me and he told me just do what I want and don’t need to care about others thought. “Someone said you are a high school student just let them go, the only you need to do is acting like yourself.” I can remember it clearly that my dad told me. Therefore, I think it is not a big deal that someone make an identity conflict of me because of my wearing, but the important thing is being myself and I believe people would change their mind in the
It is impossible that a person who have only one identity in his long life because people all have the different relationship with each other in this complex social. Although I’m a student, I have many identities, for example, like to cook, car buff, good at singing and interested in repair things. Sometimes people will create a conflict of my identity, maybe they don’t know me clearly or some misunderstanding between them and me. So, at first I want to talk about an identify conflict happened in a lunch time with my friend. Although I’m a car buff, many friends don’t know that because I’m not always show how I love cars. Therefore, some friends think I like shopping because …show more content…
It is a strange hobby that I have because my dad taught me how to repair things when I was young. My dad taught me everything include how to install a light bulb, how to repair a blank screen, even how to repair a TV. I’m different between my dad is that I prefer to take things apart while my dad likes to repair things. But at first my friends don’t believe that I can repair things accurately, because I always wear a cute T-shirt, a simple jean and sport shoes and these features marked I’m the high school student. They always think high school student seems like broke things but not repair. I hate my friends calling me high school student and I want to get a respect from my peers, so I knew I would start over in terms of how people viewed me. I helped them to repair a computer, taught them how to install a new TV. During in a birthday party of my friend Kela, the screen didn’t work and it blacked. I separated the host of computer and to checked out if the line is looseness, I put the line into a panel jack and then it works. Although it is a simple way to repair the computer, some of my friend don’t call me high school student anymore and also they did respect for me after I repair some broken items.
My father knows I repaired these broken things in school, he feels so pride of me and he told me just do what I want and don’t need to care about others thought. “Someone said you are a high school student just let them go, the only you need to do is acting like yourself.” I can remember it clearly that my dad told me. Therefore, I think it is not a big deal that someone make an identity conflict of me because of my wearing, but the important thing is being myself and I believe people would change their mind in the