On November 2006, my brother, Roodly, was diagnosed with a mild case of Autism; a disorder that impairs the ability to communicate and interact. Upon hearing the news, the first thing that came to my mind was why him? My family and I were clueless as to how to handle this issue. Roodly’s disorder caused a troubling situation for the family, especially for me. I reacted to Roodly’s diagnosis immaturely. Because I knew Roodly would associated with a group called ESE, I didn’t want to be seen with him in public. Thus, I avoided him at school. I didn’t make eye contact or attempt to talk to Roodly. For years, I disowned Roodly as a brother. Then one day, while I was eating lunch with my friends, I noticed Roodly walking by himself. Usually, Roodly would say “hi” to me, but he didn’t say a word. He just walked right past me with a sad expression on his face. At that moment, I knew avoiding my brother had to cease. After that day, Roodly and I hung out more. We talked about everything from his classes to his favorite things. Just by spending time with Roodly, I learned so much about him. It’s amazing how close we are as siblings now; I consider him not only a brother, but as a friend. I believe growing up with Roodly has helped me become the woman I am today. I’m an accepting person, and I don’t judge individuals based on disabilities, gender, sexual orientation, etc. Above all, I’m definitely a better
On November 2006, my brother, Roodly, was diagnosed with a mild case of Autism; a disorder that impairs the ability to communicate and interact. Upon hearing the news, the first thing that came to my mind was why him? My family and I were clueless as to how to handle this issue. Roodly’s disorder caused a troubling situation for the family, especially for me. I reacted to Roodly’s diagnosis immaturely. Because I knew Roodly would associated with a group called ESE, I didn’t want to be seen with him in public. Thus, I avoided him at school. I didn’t make eye contact or attempt to talk to Roodly. For years, I disowned Roodly as a brother. Then one day, while I was eating lunch with my friends, I noticed Roodly walking by himself. Usually, Roodly would say “hi” to me, but he didn’t say a word. He just walked right past me with a sad expression on his face. At that moment, I knew avoiding my brother had to cease. After that day, Roodly and I hung out more. We talked about everything from his classes to his favorite things. Just by spending time with Roodly, I learned so much about him. It’s amazing how close we are as siblings now; I consider him not only a brother, but as a friend. I believe growing up with Roodly has helped me become the woman I am today. I’m an accepting person, and I don’t judge individuals based on disabilities, gender, sexual orientation, etc. Above all, I’m definitely a better