It might be not one person in this world who doesn’t have at least a problem in life. It could be everyone has a problem, even many problems in life. These problems either can limit themselves or even can work as a step for us to move forward, but one thing is right, problems come is to be solved by solution.
I have a problem that actually a bit bother me lately. As I just begin my study at college, I feel like I am having a bit shock with the atmosphere here at college.
Months ago, when I was in high school, I didn’t have a lot of friends. I only had at least two close friends which were all my classmates. I didn’t think I could be close to other friends, even my classmates because I thought they had different perspective in …show more content…
From that day, I started to realize that I am alone. I feel alone. I have lots of friends, like they are everywhere, but I don’t feel like I have even one person to be shared, to be believed and worthed to listen things that happens to me now. I feel like I need that one person who will listen to every lamentations that come from my mouth about problems at school, committees, and else. Somehow, the loneliness make me feel so down, not even my family would listen to me. All of my kind-hearted friends are really care, but busy with their own activities. I don’t think it is a good idea to bother them with my own …show more content…
Having lots of friends will make everything tend easier, especially as a college student.
The last one is a suggestion from a guy friend. He said that it was only my opinion. I feel lonely is not because I am alone and nobody cares about me, but it is because I consider that no one cares about me. It was only my own way to see how others treat me. They could be care, but I refuse to see their way. They might be busy with their own activities too. He also told me that his lecturer had said to him that our mind contains a lot of perspectives and opinions. He asked me to change mine and see how beautiful life is. He asked me to be more grateful to God about how blessing my life is.
In my own opinion, I think I need to start looking for a person to be close to. Nevertheless, I don’t think I will only rely to that one person. I will tend to rely to God, I need to be more grateful about what I have now. Besides, I think I need to change my own perspectives like what my friend had said. I need to fill myself with positivities instead of