Both aspects are done gradually at first, typically going unnoticed, than become more apparent as time moves forward. In my research I discovered that the physical conditioning will begin will small touches in safe areas of the body such as the arms or upper back. Once I appeared to be comfortable, and did not shy away, the length and area of the touch changed. More intimate areas such as legs, hands and even the neck were now fair game. The other aspect of this, mental, was also conditioned. First small actions would be reprimanded, then it turned into where I would be having lunch and studying for upcoming assessments. It has now progressed to the point where he is possessive and is controlling of what takes place during the school day as well as who I socialize with. Conditioning me to feel as though I cannot function as a single unit and make my own conscience
Both aspects are done gradually at first, typically going unnoticed, than become more apparent as time moves forward. In my research I discovered that the physical conditioning will begin will small touches in safe areas of the body such as the arms or upper back. Once I appeared to be comfortable, and did not shy away, the length and area of the touch changed. More intimate areas such as legs, hands and even the neck were now fair game. The other aspect of this, mental, was also conditioned. First small actions would be reprimanded, then it turned into where I would be having lunch and studying for upcoming assessments. It has now progressed to the point where he is possessive and is controlling of what takes place during the school day as well as who I socialize with. Conditioning me to feel as though I cannot function as a single unit and make my own conscience