How To Write A Personal Response To Coben

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In this story Coben is talking about how you should use spyware, but tell your kids about it first so they know that you are spying on them. Coben also says to talk your kids and ask them if anything is has happened on any of there social media websites. Ways I agree and disagree with Coben. I agree with Coben just a little bit because if you do use spyware you could easily tell what your kid is up to and make sure they are safe. But I would feel that your kid will get mad at you because it shows you don’t trust them. The reason I disagree with this is because you should trust your kid but ask them questions about they’re social media. Things that I have experienced like this topic. I once had an experience where I was on Facebook one

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