Almost everyone will have to break up with a boyfriend or a girlfriend at some point in his or her life. Breaking up is honestly a hard thing to do no matter what the situation. At some point in time, you found something special in this person that you are now going to have to get out of your life. Now these good times and special features must be bypassed so you can do what's best for you. An easy way to remember the tools you need is to remember the Wizard of Oz, because all you need is courage, a heart and a brain.
The first step to ending a relationship is realizing it is going nowhere. Realization is the most important step. After making this conclusion, your brain knows what to do, even if your heart may feel different. In
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If the person asks what went wrong do not verbally attack them. This could lead to many situations that could make the break up more difficult, including an unwanted fight. Tell them simply that it is you and blame yourself. If you blame them they could try to convince you that they can change when you know they can't. However, if you blame yourself, he or she cannot say, "Well you could change this
" Make up an excuse. You can say you have a lot of stress on you, you don't want a serious relationship right now or you have other priorities to tend to. Make sure the excuse is something that they could not change about their self. This could lead to being manipulated into staying.
After the initial break up is over, make sure to cut off all contact with this person. Do not call them or go places you might see them. Avoid them at all costs. If you continue to have contact it could result in sexual contact, which will ultimately be regretted. He or she could also try the jealousy routine on you, where they hang out around you while hitting on someone else all night long. This always results in hard feelings and there is nothing worse then a nasty break up.
Relationships are like roller coasters; they begin, go up and down and end. It is always hard to end this cycle due to uncomforting change. When you decide to end a relationship be careful and do it right. So follow that yellow brick road