Rudy's native English and his personality give him a freewheeling attitude towards sex that Yolanda lacks. He talks about sex with a distinct American vocabulary, using words such as "laid," “balled,” "fucked," and slang such as "69," (97). This causes Yolanda to be offended by what she feels is an inappropriate and crass way of talking about sex. She cannot think about sex in the same ways that Americans did in the late sixties, a fun and harmless experience. She continues to see it in many ways as her parents did, as a symbol of a long term and spiritual commitment to another person. Coupled with her love of language, she connects the idea that talking about sex casually means the individual treats sex as a casual
Rudy's native English and his personality give him a freewheeling attitude towards sex that Yolanda lacks. He talks about sex with a distinct American vocabulary, using words such as "laid," “balled,” "fucked," and slang such as "69," (97). This causes Yolanda to be offended by what she feels is an inappropriate and crass way of talking about sex. She cannot think about sex in the same ways that Americans did in the late sixties, a fun and harmless experience. She continues to see it in many ways as her parents did, as a symbol of a long term and spiritual commitment to another person. Coupled with her love of language, she connects the idea that talking about sex casually means the individual treats sex as a casual