Instant gratification has always been a thing that is possible, but thanks to the online world, instant gratification is more possible than ever. You don't need to debate things anymore with others. You simply look it up on your phone with seconds and whoever is right gets the satisfaction of knowing it instantly. You don't need to wait for a big opportunity to come for success. You can put yourself out there online and go viral to get noticed. You don't need to wait to buy something you want. You can order it online and receive it within minutes if it is a digital service or the next day if it is a physical product. We live in a world where you can get almost anything you want when you want it and it's hard not to need instant gratification in every area of life.
How Instant Gratification Is Ruining Your Relationships …show more content…
If they do not want to move that fast, then you will move on to the next person... and the next and the next. Alternatively, if you want to be in a relationship right now, then you could make the most imperfect person perfect in your eyes. You will 'see the potential' and try to convert them into what you want as you hold on to them for dear life because you want to be in a relationship so much that you can't let them go!
Successful dating is for the patient people. Yes, you can swipe through a group of potential people and get instant gratification in that way, but when it comes to getting to know them and deciding whether or not they are a good fit for your life, that takes time.
The truth is that you can't expect to find the perfect person right away and instantly get into a long-term relationship. You have to be willing to date, learn more about the people you date, and determine whether or not they are going to be a good match for
How Instant Gratification Is Ruining Your Relationships …show more content…
If they do not want to move that fast, then you will move on to the next person... and the next and the next. Alternatively, if you want to be in a relationship right now, then you could make the most imperfect person perfect in your eyes. You will 'see the potential' and try to convert them into what you want as you hold on to them for dear life because you want to be in a relationship so much that you can't let them go!
Successful dating is for the patient people. Yes, you can swipe through a group of potential people and get instant gratification in that way, but when it comes to getting to know them and deciding whether or not they are a good fit for your life, that takes time.
The truth is that you can't expect to find the perfect person right away and instantly get into a long-term relationship. You have to be willing to date, learn more about the people you date, and determine whether or not they are going to be a good match for