How Having A Mom Changed My Life

People always say “don’t have kids at a young age, having a child is not easy.” Well now, I believe them. I have a three-year old daughter, and even though she is the biggest blessing in my life; but I now know why they say to wait. So many things have changed in my life since becoming a mother. She has made me a better person, and it is because of her that I work hard for our future. Even though she is a wonderful blessing in my life there are also struggles. I had to grow up and become responsible once she came into my life. It does get hard, But I wasn’t exactly on the right path before she came along. So, I will always be thankful that because of her I changed my life around. For example, I don’t do the things young people without children are doing. Instead of being able to go out and go on road trips, I am staying in at home tucking her in for bedtime. I don’t get to go to parties, friends houses, festivals, or after school hobbies. Instead I am going to parks, toddler dancing class, doctors appointments, and being a little girls’ hero. I don’t just make plans to go out. I have to make sure I have someone to watch her. Sometimes I have to cancel …show more content…
It has been hard and every day it is a different challenge. I know I could have done things differently, but in no way would I change my daughter for the things I am missing out on now. Her love is beyond explainable, and no temporary fun can ever replace the love I have for her. I work a million times harder in work, school, and life so she can have a better future. Everything I do is not for me anymore, but for what my little girl deserves. She makes me so happy. The unconditinal love she has for me outweighs the struggles. She is worth everything I am missing out on. I know over the years as I see her grow she will be worth all my hard work. My daughter Vanessa has been an angel in disguise, that made me turn