Griet’s relationship with her parents changes the most during her absence. Over the course of the story, Griet keeps the truth from her parents more than she would previously and comes to lying more often. She does this in order keep her parents from questioning her about her actions or what is happening around her. In her father’s eyes, the family lost Griet as soon as she left to work as a maid. One Sunday, Pieter the son visits their church in order to make an appearance to her family and she reassures her father that she will always be there for the family, even if Pieter the son stays in their lives. At this comment, her father frowns and admits to Griet that, “We’ve already lost you, Griet. We lost you the moment you became a maid” (Chevalier 118) telling the us, the readers,
Griet’s relationship with her parents changes the most during her absence. Over the course of the story, Griet keeps the truth from her parents more than she would previously and comes to lying more often. She does this in order keep her parents from questioning her about her actions or what is happening around her. In her father’s eyes, the family lost Griet as soon as she left to work as a maid. One Sunday, Pieter the son visits their church in order to make an appearance to her family and she reassures her father that she will always be there for the family, even if Pieter the son stays in their lives. At this comment, her father frowns and admits to Griet that, “We’ve already lost you, Griet. We lost you the moment you became a maid” (Chevalier 118) telling the us, the readers,