How Does Griet Change In The Story Of The Vermeer Family

Improved Essays
Before she moved across town to serve the Vermeer family, Griet, the main character, had a close bond with her family. Her mother, sister Agnes and Griet would laugh during their daily chores and she would explore the city of Delft, their dutch hometown, with her two beloved siblings, Agnes and Frans. She was able to talk and confide in her father, who helped her gain perspective and wisdom. Everything changed as Griet’s family found misfortune when her father, a tiler in Delft, lost his eyesight due to a kiln accident and was no longer able to practice his trade. This forced Griet to become a maid in the painter’s household, serving the young mistress Catharina, Vermeer’s wife, as well as cleaning his studio in a way that would look as if nothing had ever been moved. When Griet moved to work for the Vermeer’s, her family lost that closeness and it was further …show more content…
Griet’s relationship with her parents changes the most during her absence. Over the course of the story, Griet keeps the truth from her parents more than she would previously and comes to lying more often. She does this in order keep her parents from questioning her about her actions or what is happening around her. In her father’s eyes, the family lost Griet as soon as she left to work as a maid. One Sunday, Pieter the son visits their church in order to make an appearance to her family and she reassures her father that she will always be there for the family, even if Pieter the son stays in their lives. At this comment, her father frowns and admits to Griet that, “We’ve already lost you, Griet. We lost you the moment you became a maid” (Chevalier 118) telling the us, the readers,

Related Documents

  • Improved Essays

    In Jeannette’s memoir the most impactful factor in her life, are her parents. Jeannette’s father was a drunk blunt man, who always had his head in the clouds, and was blind to the family’s present…

    • 240 Words
    • 1 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    It is important to recognise that Reibey’s parents had passed and she was living as an orphan with her grandmother up until the age of 13, when her grandmother died. As a young girl with little to none…

    • 755 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Jeannette faces many hardships during her life through resiliency because the idea of a perfect family was instilled into her mind at such young age. As a young girl,…

    • 327 Words
    • 2 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    The Glass Castle Theme

    • 832 Words
    • 4 Pages

    It had been months since Jeannette had seen or heard from her mother, but then and there was not the right time for a “ family reunion”. Jeannette was “ overcome with panic” (Walls 3) at the thought that if her mother would seen her, she would call for her, and “ that and that someone on the way to the same party would spot [them]…

    • 832 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Jeannette tells that her mother needs to, “be firmer, lay down the law for dad instead of getting hysterical all the time” (208). She knows that if her family is going to get better, something needs to change between her parents. The reader is surprised by this because Jeannette shows how she really feels about her parents and how they are being negative towards the family. The truth is coming out, Jeannette is losing faith in her parents and she is taking the responsibility. It was surprising to the reader that of all the kids Jeannette assumed…

    • 736 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    (4) However, when her father dies, Jeannette realizes that he was not bad. At the reconciliation at her mother’s place, her mother tells them that “Life with [their] father was never boring.” (288) Even though their life was hard with their father, they are still family that is special in its own way.…

    • 1230 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Essay On Jeannette Walls

    • 720 Words
    • 3 Pages

    Jeannette became the woman she is today in spite of her childhood because of the poverty she faced, the lack of a consistent and reliable home, and the two, polar opposite sides of her father. For the first seventeen years of her life, Jeannette lived in a kind of poverty that most people could hardly imagine: no plumbing, dangerous infrastructure in her houses, and rarely any food. Her family was so poor that “[the] kids slept in big cardboard boxes” (52), says Jeannette.. This largely contrasts to the life she lived even when she first arrived in New York. In New York, Jeannette worked…

    • 720 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Great Essays

    Marguerite felt hatred towards the color of her skin and wrote, “Wouldn’t they be surprised when one day I woke out of my black ugly dream...” (Angelou 2) Due to what her parents did, she dealt with abandonment issues and believed them to be dead. Moreover, segregation was prominent in Stamps and impacted her life. Years later, Marguerite traveled to visit her real Mother in St. Louis. She was shocked to find out that her parents were alive and was unsure of how to approach “Mother Dear”, as Bailey would call her.…

    • 1121 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Jeannette Walls Parents

    • 1092 Words
    • 5 Pages

    Jeannette Walls, a once low class, immature child blossomed into an amazing woman and journalist. While her parents fail to provide some of the simplest needs for her and her siblings, instead of letting it get to her and giving up, she makes the choice to face her problems and even learned to grow from them. Although her family held her back from many opportunities, Jeannette still kept trying her best to become a better person as she grew up. While trying to find herself in an unorthodox, dysfunctional, and crowded family, Jeannette learns self sufficiency and her true identity, which demonstrates how hardships in life create motivation. Being let down is always hard, especially when let down by family, and while not being able to further…

    • 1092 Words
    • 5 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Superior Essays

    Throughout the novel, her and her family take on different roles, they test their trust and forgiveness for one another, and obtain the acceptance of their lost dreams. Jeannette took on a huge role as a kid. From earliest…

    • 1073 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Superior Essays

    “An hour later they had turned off the machines. ”(278) For anyone losing a parent is an extremely wearisome trauma to overcome. Jeannette had taken it the hardest she usually found herself not wanting to be where she was or doing what she was doing. All in all Jeannette had become lost after her father’s passing.…

    • 1305 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Improved Essays

    Now that her mom is not present, she feels in danger to be around her dad because she is the only girl from the family. For instance, “When they were growing up he had never gone for her like he used to go for Harry and Ernes, because she was a girl; but latterly he had begun to…

    • 801 Words
    • 4 Pages
    Improved Essays
  • Great Essays

    The most notable and the one discussed in this paper is one considering the Chalfens. Irie, being a young girl facing even then unattainable beauty standards, has an identity crisis. She sees herself as something undesirable by both Millat and the rest of the people around her. Before looking at the scene at the Chalfen home, it is helpful to look at her infatuation with Millat. Growing up Millat, Irie grows to have “feelings” for him, but ultimately knows that “…she was different…”…

    • 1410 Words
    • 6 Pages
    Great Essays
  • Superior Essays

    With the condition of my relatives worsening each day, I was forced to witness as one by one the DuBois family was becoming nothing more than a name on gravestone. Grandparents, parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, all gone in the span of just a few years. Traumatized by the sudden death of my family and with Stella gone, I found myself falling into yet another downward spiral. Living on a feeble schoolteacher’s salary, I was forced to flee my pleasant home of Belle Reve and to seek guidance from the last remaining member of my family,…

    • 739 Words
    • 3 Pages
    Superior Essays
  • Great Essays

    Symbols In Perfume

    • 1677 Words
    • 7 Pages

    We discussed the importance of setting in Grenouille’s development and how it could have led to mental disorders. In the 1700’s, it was not uncommon for an orphan like Grenouille to be mistreated. First he lives in an orphanage and, once he can work, Madame Gaillard sends him to do grueling labor as a tanner’s apprentice. It is simply the time period, nobody sees Grenouille as being mistreated because all children are mistreated.…

    • 1677 Words
    • 7 Pages
    Great Essays